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Saturday, July 1st, 2006

GROWING WITHOUT SCHOOLING #28

I’ve been busy as a bird dog since my return from Europe - the busiest summer schedule I can remember for a long time.  Besides the homeschooling meetings or lectures listed in #27, there was another meeting in Woods Hole, MA, and I’m leaving soon for more in Santa Fe and Albuquerque.  I have also done radio interviews in Rochester NY, St. Louis, Providence RI, Saskatoon, and two in Boston.

Nancy P. (NJ) and I had a wonderful time at the Homesteaders’ Good Life Get-Together.  Much interest in home-schooling.

Both Florida meetings drew more than twice as many people as expected.  In Tallahassee we had to find a new room for the lecture, and that room was jammed.  I met many homeschoolers there - as everywhere, they were determined, energetic, and resourceful.  They said my visit was good for their morale; it was just as good for mine.

The Massachusetts Association of School Committees invited me to be on a panel at their Nov. 4 conference in Hyannis, but as it happened I was already scheduled for a teacher’s conference in  New York.  So Donna will be going to the Hyannis conference  instead; she says it will be a nice excuse to get dressed up!

I’ve bought a new cello, the first decent one I have ever owned, and what a difference!  Playing it is a joy - I wish I could do it more.

As you will see in this issue, we are adding some cassette tapes to the list of materials we sell here.  Hope you like  these.

Mary Van Doren has been a regular and very valuable volunteer in the office. With her comes her 13-month old Anna, and watching this enchanting little person exploring the office, learning to walk and talk and climb up and down the building stairs, is our joy and delight.  I have been tape recording much of her talk and adventures, and plan to add these to our list of  cassettes - a fascinating record of a little child’s growth.

–John Holt

VICTORY IN SOUTH CAROLINA

Delores W. (SC) has been keeping us posted on a long struggle with the local school district.  Early in July  she phoned us, jubilant over the fact that the State Board of Education had decided in her family’s favor.  She soon sent us this note with a packet of material:

. . . What a joy to write good news, and send you the clippings from the local paper.  There have been two other newspaper pieces, with simiilar stories as these, and another local weekly newspaper will come this afternoon . . .Two TV  stations carried the story last night on the 11 PM news.

. . . I hope this information is all you will need for GWS.  I am enclosing a copy of the brief that our lawyer sent to the State Board of Education and a copy of their reply after their  final decision.

We are certainly thankful for this ruling. I must run, since TV and newspaper reporters have consumed a couple of days, and the garden is getting behind.  One of the reporters invited the kids to the studio to see the entire process of what goes on behind the scenes.  All the news media were very interested and sympathetic, and were fascinated with our large family and our decision to home-school.

We have been very surprised at the amount of publicity this has received, but since it has set a precedent for the state, we will help all we can . . .

From the Columbia State, 7/10/82: . . .The State Board of Education Friday reversed a decision by the Greenville County school board denying a Greenville couple’s request to teach their children at home for religious reasons.

In a unanimous vote, the board ruled the Greenville trustees erred when they denied the request of Mr. and Mrs. Charles W. White on the grounds that neither held a teaching certificate.

According to state education officials, Friday’s action was the first time the board of education has approved an appeal in a home-instruction case.

. . . Parents may seek to show that the instruction they provide their children is “substantially equivalent to instruction given to children of like ages in the public or private schools where such children reside.”

The law makes the State Board  of Education the final arbiter on the question of whether an instruction program is “substantially equivalent.”  However, the board, through its regulatory power, has directed local school boards to make the  initial determination . . .

In the White case, a home visiting committee, appointed by the Greenville school system, reviewed the family’s home-instruction program and concluded that Mrs. White was adequately prepared to teach her children.

The committee recommended that the school system approve the home instruction request, provided the instructional program was reviewed on an annual basis and that the White children participated in state and district testing programs.

Despite the committee’s recommendation, Greenville school superintendent Floyd Hall denied the Whites’ request, stating that “nothing less than full teacher certification and training . competences by (their) children.”

The Whites, through their attorneys appealed to the Greenville school board, which upheld Hall’s decision.

In its decision to grant the White’s appeal, the State Board of Education said Hall and the Greenville trustees failed to adequately consider the Whites’ claim that their instruction was at least equivalent to the instruction offered in private schools in Greenville County.

The board noted  that “although teacher certification may properly be required for a program alleged to be equivalent under state law to a public school program, the Appellants have alleged equivalence to public or private schools. Teacher certification is not necessarily a requirement in all private schools, and thus . . . cannot be required in a program alleged to be equivalent to a private school.” . . .

LOCAL NEWS

ARIZONA:  Sherri P.writes, “I was actively involved in the amendments and passage of HB 2116 dealing with home schools in Arizona (GWS #27).  Although we would have preferred no regulation of home schools, it was a fair compromise.  The Senate Education Committee had emphatically stated they would not even hear the bill the way it was sent to them from the House.  Therefore, I proposed amendments which allowed the State to be satisfied that the person teaching would at least have the basic math, reading, and grammar skills of a sixth grader, and also the children would take the same CAT test given all public school children.  We also included a hearing process for the protection of the parents . . who wish to start home schools next school year.   I have decided to compile a booklet which would detail all of the requirements.

The ARIZONA HOME EDUCATION ASSOCIATION sent us copies of some of their handouts and bulletin board notices, including a one page summary of the new legal requirements, and small (2″ x 4″) slips with big black letters reading, “Interestedd in learning more about HOMESCHOOLING?  (Educating your children at home).  Phone ________.”

And Helen Kepler of Kingman tells us that, contrary to what she was first told, the proficiency tests that home-schooling parents will be required to take will be offered regularly èthroughout the year.

CALIFORNIA:  Cyd R. writes, “Here is a copy of my Master’s Thesis on Home Schooling in California.  This is the most comprehensive survey of the California home-schooling experience I could put together - most of the work is of course applicable to home-schoolers everywhere . . .I would like to offer reprints for sale to GWS readers for $12 . . .The home-schoolers around San Jose have given me wonderful feedback and have been requesting copies.

CONNECTICUT:  Charges against Deborah and Donald C.that they were not educating their son were dismissed in Superior Court recently.  They were taken to court by the local school officials, who had given them permission for one year of home-schooling, but not a second.

INDIANA:  David L. sent a letter to other Indiana families, saying that the Governor’s Select Advisory Commission  for Primary and Secondary Education would be holding monthly meetings from May to October, and it was possible they would redefine a “school” and make a new set of guidelines for home schools.  David encouraged others to attend, to write their representatives, and possibly to arrange informational meetings.

KANSAS:  Cathy B. of the HOME EDUCATOR’S NEWSLETTER told us, “‘In favor of the family’ was the ruling this June in the case of Keith and Paula White of Miltervale, Kansas . . .The State alleged that Zephyrus, the Whites’ 7-year-old son, was a ‘deprived child’ as his parents were purportedly ‘not educating’ him.  The decision was made June 21 by Judge Marvin Stortz, District Magistrate Judge for Cloud County . . .”

LOUISIANA:  Katherine R. of CITIZENS FOR HOME EDUCATION writes, “We have just finished a successful fight in the Louisiana legislature to retain home-study, prevent mandatory kindergarten, and make permanent a law which exempts private schools (those which receive no government aid) from any paperwork requirements.  We are thrilled with our success but we know that we need to spread the word and attract new membership in preparation for next year’s fight . . .”

MASSACHUSETTS:  Susan L.  belongs to a Cape Cod home-schooling group that meets bi-monthly.  She told us they met recently with the Assistant Superintendent of Schools, and were warmly receiived.  He gave them advice on submitting a curriculum outline, suggested they work with the local principals to have a curriculum roughly comparable to that of the schools, gave them advice on texts, and said there would be no external testing unless a child enetered school.  Susan also said the parents found Danielle F. (”Certified Teachers,” GWS #26) to be very helpful.

MINNESOTA:  Sharon H. sent us a newsletter of the MINNESOTA HOME SCHOOL NETWORK, which included one paragraph each on six home-schooling families, and announced future workshops.  Sharon says, “I sent off 125 of these letters and I hear from prospective home schoolers every day . . .Isn’t this fun?  I really mean it.”

NEW YORK: from Harold I. “My first court case out of 140 families just received a flat dismissal on required standardized testing for home schoolers.  The state challenged us in my back yard (Chenango County) so I testified on behalf of the family.  The judge dismissed the case because of lack of statute requirement.”

OHIO:  OCEAN is sponsoring an Alternative Education Roundup for home-schoolers and alternative schools, Saturday Oct. 3, 1982, from 9-3

PENNSYLVANIA:  Susan R. has started the Western Pa. Homeschoolers Newsletter, with many good articles and ideas.  In Issue #2 she tells about the “First Annual Homeschooler’s Weekend,” June 11-13, at the Richman farm:  34 families with 86 children!

TEXAS:  We’ve been hearing about two court battles.  A Dallas County Justice of the Peace dismissed the truancy charges against Steve and Barbara Short of Richardson, saying the law inadequately describes what constitutes a school.

In another much-publicized case, Ed and Barbara Gonzalez of San Antonio were taken to court several times.  They were acquitted once in March, then charged again in May, lost, and were unable to appeal because of a technicality.  The last we heard, the district attorney may not bother to file charges again.  The Gonzalez’s lawyer, Egon Tausch, sent us a good letter about the legalities of home-schooling which we may reprint later.

WASHINGTON STATE:  Debra S. reported in the Unschoolers Project that House Bill 996, which would have made it easier to start a private school, was finally defeated, 37-50.

Also interesting to note that the Stewarts financed the publication of their newletter by selling the MY YEARBOOK series, $15 books that contain all thereading, math, science, etc. that a child is usually expected to learn in any one grade.

WEST VIRGINIA:  Deirdre P. wrote in Alternatives in Education about the W.V. Supreme Court of Appeals case, State vs. Riddle:  “. . .This case is a lesson in how not to do homeschooling.  The Riddles never requested the county superintendent of schools to approve their home as a place for instruction under Exemption B in WV Code 18-8-1

. . .They withdrew their children from school and kept them home until they were reported as truant; then they claimed First Amendment freedom.

“The Court acknowledges that the Riddles did an excellent job of teaching their children (’possibly better than the public schools could do’), using materials from the Christian Liberty Academy.  The court objects not to home-schooling, but to home-schooling without permission from and oversight by the county board of education - as mandated in the law.

TALK TO STUDENTS

From a reader in New Jersey:

. . .Another homeschooler and I went to Rutgers University to talk about homeschooling to a sociology class. . .There were about 40 students. . .

. . .One student brought up the point that in these times it didn’t seem realistic, as in most families both parents have to work.  I liked my friend’s answer.  She said it was true that home-schooling wasn’t for everyone, but that for her it was a matter of where people set their priorities.  From what I see and hear, most home-schoolers don’t have a lot of money and do have to give up some materialistic things or incorporate some kind of job that allows them to home-school, or both.

The class was a little over two hours - it felt like ten minutes.  It was a lot of fun and I wouldn’t mind doing it again.  By the way, we didn’t tell the class what towns we lived in or our educational background.  At the next class, the teacher (a friend - I babysit her 1 1/2-year-old) asked the class to guess our educational background.  Most guessed that I had at least four years of college, probably more.  They were surprised to hear that I had only two years of high school . . .

WINNING IN MISSISSIPPI

Sandi M. (MS) writes:

. . .Ours has been an interesting relationship with the school system.  In March I contacted them to see if there were any rules I ought to know about concerning homeschooling.  We live in military housing and a neighbor had turned us in to the Base Housing Office for having creatures (two ducks, a turtle we see occasionally, a dog, goldfish, and a gerbil) and for having the kids out of school.  Come to find out, the law is even more Šsupportive than I had imagined.The school code actually states that children should go to school or be adequately trained at home!

When I contacted the local superintendent, the Assistant Superintendent was fascinated, even though he strongly disagreed with me, and we talked about an hour on the phone, him asking about various areas and how we handle them, and me answering them.  He asked if my husband and I would consider coming to talk with him, the Superintendent, and the lady who takes care of curriculum forelementary grades.  I said sure, and went in about a week later.  My husband was unable to accompany me.  The kids and all supportive neighbors were sure it was a “set-up”, and Scott even suggested that I take hunting knives hidden in my socks in case I had to cut my way out of there!

We talked about two hours.  The Superintendent and the woman in charge of curriculum were far more positive than the Asst. Superintendent.   But all were literally fascinated by the psychology and goals we set, agreeing with them completly.  They listened to our methods and approaches and nodded as I talked.

I was completely honest.  When they asked what a normal day was for us, I said that I didn’t think we had had one yet.  They were amazed that the children weren’t bored a good deal of the time, and loved it when I told them of the older children’s anatomy session with THE ANATOMY COLORING BOOK and John Michael (3 1/2) stripped down to undies, drawing his parts all over him.  The kids even included a legend beneath his lungs to show what was intended by a section with diagonal lines, and one with dots, and so on.  I also said that I cut the session short when I insisted that they not do it with permanent marks again - water color markers, yes, but permanent ones, no!  John wore his lungs for about three weeks!

I had an ulterior motive when I went to talk with them.  I asked if they would consider loaning or selling me books from the school book depository, and give me a copy of the curriculum they set for each grade.  At the end of our talk, they asked me to call the Asst. Superintendent in a few days to see about both.

When I called back, I was not too surprised by his comments, but they were funny.  He said that I could probably tell that I had them eating out of my hand when I left.  He also said that they had had to talk it over among themselves for several days before they got back to their original point of view that what I was doing was wrong.  He could understand if it was from a religious point, but just because I thought the children were doing better at home was not justified.  He felt particularly sorry for that little first grader of mine (Shelley, 7) who had never been to school at all.  (At that point I asked why he didn’t meet that little first grader of mine to judge her personally.  He didn’t answer).  And since this went against his convictions so much, he just couldn’t give us books.  He was particularly concerned about us not going by a schedule of any sort.  He did say that the curriculum they are using now is absolutely useless and they expect to have a very good one this summer, and for me to call later on and they could get one to me. He was speaking very nicely to me, so the conversation was not unpleasant. I said that we probably would not use the school books as they would have us use them anyway since, dollar for dollar, they just don’t measure up to some very good information that is available, so that wasn’t a big loss, and invited him or others to meet and visit with the children to better understand the personal choices we had made.  I also told him that we often go to the beach for a picnic lunch and a couple of hours before or afterwards, and invited him to come play hooky some day and join us to see the beauty of children learning and doing what is important to them.  He said that he still feels we are making a mistake and I answered that I could not say that I am not making one, but I have had to rely on my knowledge of my children and my intuition in the past and seem to have made wise choices even though they were not always in directions that were in vogue at the time, and would trust that I would make the right choices now.

During our talk at their office, he had asked me if there was a chance that my children weren’t getting a view of the “real” world with keeping them at home.  I answered, possibly, but I thought they were getting a better view of the “real” world because the things they do are real . . . I asked if he had seen some people who get boxed in in “education” and never know the “real” world.  He had to laugh and admit that he certainly had.

All in all, I feel the match went to me, and at least if a family comes in who does use schedules or does it for very religious reasons, then they may be more supportive of them for having known me!. . .

SUCCESS IN FLORIDA

Ann Mordes (FL) wrote:

. . . I wanted to let you know that my husband and I have been under fire here in Jackson County.  H.R.S. (Health and Rehabilatative Services) called me on June 26.  The social worker said they had been given a referral on my son, Daniel, from the school superintendent.  He had told her that we had a truant child.  I told her that was not true, that we operated a legally registered private school in our home and Daniel was enrolled.  She asked that we come to her office and talk about it.

. . . The next morning, I wrote her a letter (on school letterhead stationery) inviting her to come out and visit me.  I gave her explicit instructions on how to get to our school and  home

. . .  I informed her as to what the laws were regarding private schools in the state of Florida, and told her to check on these with Dr. James Kemp’s office at the Department of Education in Tallahassee.

The next day this woman called my lawyer and told her that she felt that H.R.S. had no jurisdiction over us, due to the fact we were a private school.  The social worker told my lawyer that she felt they were being “used” by the superintendent

. . .   “If I can get out of it, I am!” she said.  My attorney said that she thought that was a good idea, as we were registered as a private school and in her opinion acting as one.  (I had already educated my lawyer regarding private schools.) My husband and I also ran a small ad in the local newspaper, saying that our private school was now taking applications for the fall.  We had one phone call.

The social worker never showed up nor called again.  My husband and I went over to Tallahassee to visit Dr. Kemp last Friday.  He knew what the problem was the minute I walked in the door.  He was extremely cordial, as he always is . . .

When we returned home, we received a copy of the letter that H.R.S. sent to the superintendent, and I thought you might like a copy.  I’m thinking about framing it! . . .

(From the H.R.S. letter to the school superintendent:)  As part of our investigation of the truancy referral on Daniel Mordes, we talked with Dr. James Kemp, Department of Education, Tallahassee, Florida.  According to Dr. Kemp, the Mordes Academy is listed with the Department of Education as a private school. He told us that on December 17, 1981, the Fourth District Court of Appeals ruled that a private school 1) must charge tuition which suports school activities and 2) cannot limit enrollment to a single family.

Dr. Kemp stated that the Department of Education has no policing powers regarding private schools, and your responsibility is limited to checking attendance records (FS, Section 232.01).  We could not determine that the matter of certification of teachers in private schools has been addessed by Florida Statutes.

In view of the above information, we cannot determine that Daniel Mordes is a truant child:  therefore Juvenile Court has no jurisdiction in this matter.  We are closing our case as an unfounded report and notifying Mr. and Mrs. Mordes of our decision . . .

(Signed by the District Intake Supervisor and Direct Services Supervisor.)

MORE SUCCESS STORIES

Lois Porter (NY) wrote:

Apr. 30: . . .The “Committee on the Handicapped,” which includes the school superintendent, approved our curriculum for John.  We patterned our homeschooling cover letter after several in GWS.  The committee was very impressed with the thoroughness of the proposal, the legal precedents cited, etc.  It was the first such request they had ever received.  Actually, our letter informed them of what we were doing.  We were very clear, without being belligerent, about our rights.

The board of education will approve or disapprove the program on May 25th.  The superintendent assures us they will rubber-stamp it.

There is just one fly in the ointment.  They are insisting on doing IQ testing on John this fall.  They claim that NY State law mandates such testing every three years for “handicapped” children.  I don’t want this done. . .

June 7:  . . . Several pieces of good news.  Our home schooling proposal was passed by our school board without incident.  In addition, the superintendent informed me that he had looked up the “compulsory,” every-three-year IQ testing rule for so-called handicapped children . . .  He told me that if for any reason the parents felt such testing would be detrimental, we simply had to write a letter stating that fact, and the testing would be waived!  That’s quite a relief!

John and I are doing well, 2 1/2 months into our  homeschooling venture.  He is less anxious, and his frustration tolerance, while still low, has improved markedly . . .

From a California parent:

Nov ‘81: . . .The Phil Donahue show on which you and your colleagues appeared may have saved my life.  Yes, I mean that literally.  Both my son and I have contemplated suicide as a result of being declared insane simply because of his resistance to attending public school, and my efforts to obtain appropriate education for him.

. . . It has been nightmarish trying to find some legal recourse within my very limited means . . .

July ‘82:  I am happy to say that the situation I wrote you about has been resolved.

An officer of the court, affiliated with the Welfare Dept. who was not so intent on seeing pathology in my concern for my son, after a visit to our home, determined that it was the best place for Ray, rather than public school, residential care, or any of the other drastic alternatives that had been proposed.

Since then, Ray’s depression has lifted, he  is much more active and healthy physically and socially - and even bikes six miles into town to study at the library!  All this on his own initiative . . .

. . .I have considered suing the local school district for the nightmare they put us through so unnecessarily - but just being out of it and having had my attorney let them know there was a possibility seems sufficient, at least for now.

I do wish that our experience could some how benefit others in their struggle against the (beign) tyranny of the system . . .

From Barb P. (NH):

. . .I am just so excited to tell you that I am now officially allowed to home-school my boys.  The books John wrote, especially TEACH YOUR OWN, were a great help.  GWS gave me many ideas on how to write my application also.

When I went to the superintendent, I received all sorts of negative answers.  He tried to act open-minded, yet quietly intimidated me by reminding me that children are subjects of the state, that they would have to come into my home and evaluate my teaching, and yes, they do have trouble once in a while with parents who want to do this and have to try and take the children away.  I was glad I was so well informed.

He did change his attitude greatly as we worked together. When we eventually went to the school board, he actually backed us and recommended we be approved, even to the point of interceding on our behalf when a board member became agressive .

If I can be of help to anyone else I would like that opportunity, so you may add my name to the directory . . .

(DR:  We don’t have the room to print the many other “success stories” we have received lately.  Many of them are similar - people took our advice and were delighted that it worked!  For more such stories, see GWS #27.)

IN THE MAIL

. . .Sometimes I get to feel that I must be really strange or something, because I’ve always wanted my kids around - I’ve never desired to “send-them-off” somewhere.  Seems most parents we know are into babysitters, day-care, school (as babysitter), whatever - just to get their kids out of the way.  Then there’s the between-parents shift:  “I had to have them all day yesterday, so you better take them today.”  You might think it was some object being discussed.  People regularly ask me, “But how do you stand it all day?”  What I want to know is how can they stand it?  How can they bear to miss all the new discoveries the joys?  It all goes so quickly . . .–Kathie DeWees (VT).

. . .I’ve read a few letters in GWS where someone comments on the fact that most letters are full of glowing accounts of home-schooling, wonderfully intelligent children, etc, etc, etc. And my letters are usually like that, also - whether to GWS or otherwise; who want to hear what a drag some days can be?   Well, just for the record - it has taken me an inordinate amount of time to finish this letter because of the squabbles, aches and pains, accidents and misbehavior of my children today.  One of those days, you know?  So I think I’ll stop here and go take a nap after banishing the wild ones to the far reaches of their own rooms where they can do whatever they want (and I don’t have to know about it!).–Becky Howard (AR).

. . .Just got #27 and I’m enjoying every article.  I was most surprised to see the Arizona law article.  Is it really happening that fast?  I never expected it to happen in my lifetime even, and it’s starting already . . .–Mary Jane Berntsen (TX)

A HOME SCHEDULE Karen Elder (”A New Jersey Family,” GWS #27, page 3) wrote:

. . .This is our first attempt at a letterhead for our home school, made on a hectograph.  I’d never heard of hectographs until reading GWS #19 just a few weeks ago.  We are still learning the ins and outs of it, but we really enjoy all our experiments.

We are slowly coming to grips with various “problems” of Šhome-schooling, particularly the difficult one of scheduling/non-scheduling.  We have several different schedules now.  One is the social calendar:  usually, Brownies every Tuesday afternoon; home-schoolers meeting every other Wednesday (ends up being an all-day thing for Krista and a half-day thing for Robin and Dawn); Dungeons and Dragons two out of three Friday evenings; visit to grandparents almost every weekend.  Other events, special (weddings, picnics, overnights) and everyday (playing outside with friends) fill out this schedule.

The project schedule has finally been firmed up.  We’ve been home-schooling for about six months; sometimes we would be very busy and other times we would just get caught up in a mother-housecleaning/kids-playing situation.  What bothered me most about that was the kids would start to complain that there was nothing to do.  “No schedule” just didn’t work.  Now what I do is pick out three or four projects on the weekend to do during the next week.  Projects are supposed to start at 10 AM and go until just before lunch, but sometimes everyone is finished in 45 minutes and sometimes we go on all afternoon.  The trick here (aha!) is that only those people who have eaten breakfast, gotten dressed, and combed their hair can participate in the project. (Talking sense, making contracts, screaming and yelling, etc. all failed to get Krista to dress herself before 2 PM.  No problem now.)  Today we made the hectograph.  We’ve also done potato printing, gone to a local historical museum, and made tri hexaflexagons and tetrahexaflexagons (from the book HOW TO ENJOY MATHEMATICS WITH YOUR CHILD, by Nancy Rosenberg).

The academic schedule is still in a state of flux.  I have been reading aloud to Krista (we’ve finished a Dr. Doolittle book, and are now reading UNDERSTOOD BETSY) about every other night.  Sometimes we work on a topic in math, like fractions or multiplication.  Sometimes we use Cuisenaire rods, or just paper and pencil, or workbook pages.  We’ve just been given a couple of Miquon Math Lab books (GWS #14, 19) and Krista has independently done a few pages in it.  We’ve fallen off with the journal writing, which I had originally required daily.  I am waiting for our mutual needs to bring about a jelling of our academic time, but one thing six months of home-schooling has taught me is that there is no need to be frantic about it.  Something will happen when it is ready.

In spite of all these so-called schedules, we are really very flexible and the kids have a lot of free time to themselves. One of the reasons for the schedules, in fact, is to avoid the arbitrary filling-up of the kids’ time . . .

FROM WESTERNS TO HISTORY

Arlean Haight (MI) wrote:

. . .Just thought I would give you a report on Becky (now 14) and Matt (now 11) . . . The local superintendent did approve our school program.  We had incurred a $75 legal fee before the tables were turned for us, but it was worth it.  It wasn’t the attorney that accomplished the victory, but he HAD done some Šresearch, for which we were charged, of course. . . .When we took the children out of school nearly two years ago, we had advice from several people, among them Dr. Pat Montgomery of Ann Arbor, Michigan.  She told us if we would let the children follow their own interests, and just help them when they needed help, they would learn more than if we put them on a pre-planned curriculum. I respected Dr. Montgomery, and was grateful for her help. But I just couldn’t see any glimmer of hope in Becky.  It seemed that 7 years of public school had successfully stamped out any inclination she might have had to learn.  By her own admission, she had learned to cram for tests, make A’s and B’s on her report cards, and promptly forget almost everything she had “learned.” Whenever I allowed her free rein on “school,” her one interest was mindless fiction - nothing of any value that I could see. Pat tried to encourage me, but I had the misgivings and insecurities that I see in so many other parents new to home-schooling.  I was alfraid Becky would learn nothing at all.  So -we embarked on a “curriculum.”  It turned out to be just a duplication of the old public school pattern. so I went pretty easy with it, still allowing her freedom, and limiting her fiction reading to what I felt was least objectionable. But Pat was right.  It finally happened.  This year Becky progressed from Louis Lamour Western fiction to an interest in Western history, then to the history of the United States, and is now in the process of memorizing the Constitution word for word. I am wondering - what public school teacher could  ever coerce a 14-year-old into MEMORIZING the Constitution?  In addition, Becky has learned to type and is working for her dad, typing letters, doing payroll and other office work.  We put her on our business checking account, so she can even sign the checks, though we do check them over before they go to the men.  They do NOT have mistakes. . . I never have been able to accept the idea of total freedom in education for children.  Maybe I’ve been too affected, myself, by our modern concept of education.  The children are required, among other things, to do some math every day, or almost everyday.  They also must write something of their choice every week, so we can work on composition, grammar, etc.  Both children take to this writing assignment, and Becky, who is required to write three pages each week, will easily write TEN.  They can choose their own subject.  It can be a report on something they are studying, something philosophical, or fiction. Matt loves Mother Earth News in particular, and much of his reading and many of his projects come from “her” pages.  His hope is someday to write an article that will appear in Mother Earth News.  He is forever looking for ideas for his article . . .

ELAINE MAHONEY REPORT

From Elaine M. (MA):

. . .Kendra and Kimberlee are fine and continue to appreciate learning at home.  We recently met with the curriculum committee, consisting of an elementary curriculum director, high Šschool curriculum director, assistant superintendent, etc.  both Kendra and Kimberlee were present and did a fine job of sharing past and future learning experiences and opportunities.  The meeting seems to have gone very well . . . I was concerned at first, this being Kendra’s first yar at high school level, but from what I hear, we are going in the right direction for continued good will and support. Kendra has been using the Massachusetts Department of Education Correspondence English course, and has been doing very well.  What she especially likes about the course is that she can work at her own pace and receives assistance when requested. What I like about the course is that she does get some feedback in a subject that I do not feel particularly comfortable with, the materials are very reasonably priced, and if the school district expressed a desire for a more precise and objective form of evaluation, then we have available assessment from the Massachusetts Dept. of Education . . . Kendra is a 4-H teen this year.  It always seemed a simple matter to meet the home-study needs of general socialization; the girls simply went out into the community and utilized any available resources, library, museums, science education center, YWCA courses, ballet lessons, Park and Recreation sports, etc. But, as Kendra grew older, I was concerned about the availability of opportunities for boy-girl interactions, companionship, and opportunities for learning with, from, and about one another.  I am happy to say that 4-H teens have filled this void.  The 4-H teen boys and girls work on community projects, organize dances, go on trips together, and study animal care, health, nutrition, gardening, and energy. 4-H provides wonderful opportunities for teens (actually all ages) and encourages self-awareness and development. Kendra went to the State House last week with 4-H and is going to Washington D.C. with them in July.  She also has a proposal aplication to request funding of a community awareness project that she has in mind, sponsored by Reader’s Digegst, through 4-H. She is in Tennessee at present, attending the World’s Fair. a family friend extended the invition . . .I could not afford to cover her expenses, so if she wanted to go, she needed to earn the money.  Within two weeks’ time she had raised $150.  She, along with friends and family, went to flea markets, sold cookies, did face painting, and sold balloons.  She also got a job preparing garden soil and got a job cleaning and repairing a sewing machine . . .One of the exciting parts about the trip is that they also plan to go to Kentucky to go to a sewing machine convention, which ties in nicely with her apprenticeship (GWS #23). In the fall, Kendra plans to take a correspondence course in sewing machine repair to acquire a certificate.  She has been given “seed money” from her instructor to purchase machines; she is to repair, clean, and then re-sell them to the instructor for a profit, who then sells them for an even greater profit in her shop. Kimberlee is also doing well.  She has grown so in independence, finally discovered that reading can be interesting and useful, and is also doing a little typing.  She comments that Šshe does not wish to learn to type because it is boring.  So I say, fine.  But, almost daily, she goes over to the typewriter and will type a word, a comment, or her own name.  When I notice the typed comment, I’ll add on it; she, in turn, the next day or next week, will type a response, etc.  She may not be learning according to the book, but who cares, she is learning to type. someday I think she’ll realize it. She is also learning to ride a mo-ped and is participating in a National Wildlife Certificate program (you show that your land supports wildlife). As you can see, we have been busy, but loving every minute of it . . .

A NEW ZEALAND FAMILY

Jackie H. (see Dir.) wrote:

. . .You must have been wondering how we have been faring since your visit to New Zealand.  Home-schooling as a whole does seem to still be in a very precarious position . . .  Even in Auckland, I feel from reading between the lines that the situation with regard to home-schoolers vs. the “authorities” is very uncertain.  But our almost eighteen months of home-learning has been really tremendous.  The boys are beginning to blossom, in self-confidence and reliance. I thought that you might be interested in one of their escpades.  They have been trying to save up some money for a trip to Auckland and Waiheke Island (in the Hauraki Gulf).  We have two and half walnut trees on our property.  The boys gathered up the walnuts and dried them and took them round to the local fruit shops and orchardists who, in the main, bought them.  They then discovered two more walnut trees at the back of a garage in town. The boys have cleaned up these trees too and made about $50 NZ. One day I was short of house-keeping money and didn’t have enough to buy a sack of potatoes, so I told the boys that we’d have rice instead.  Everybody said that they didn’t mind and I forgot the incident, until Russell burst into the kitchen later in the day with a smile a mile wide on his face.  He had gone round to a local market gardener and traded $3.50 worth of walnuts for a sack of potatoes! (Russell is 11).  But that wasn’t the end - oh, dear me no!  When the boys ran out of walnuts to sell, Russell went back to the bloke he had traded with and bought the same walnuts back for the price he had been given, took them to anothermarket gardener and sold them for 50% more.  So there’s 11-year-old enterprise for you!  I think that there goes one home-schooler who will never be a charge on the state. . . Autumn is a good time of year for raking lelaves and Roy and Russell have made themselves useful around town where there are sections with lots of trees.  We think that they are creating quite a nice philosophy for themselves regarding money.  If they need some for a project, then they set about earning some.  If they don’t need any, then they are not bothered. . . .John, when you came to New Zealand and we had that chat, I remember only too clearly what you said to me when I asked you how you saw the boys’ education going in the future. ŠYou looked a bit strangely at me and said, “What do they like doing?” and I said, “They like to read,” to which you replied, “Then let them read.”  I must admit that I went away grumbling to myself and thinking, “How on earth does he think we can do that and not have the education board on our backs?”  Almost a year later we have found the answer.  I don’t know if it is the one everyone would be brave enough to carry out, but we have.  We have done, in fact, what you suggested - let them read, along with anything else they wish to do, and my goodness, what a wonderful result.  When the children want to read, they read; when they want to do math, they do math, etc, etc, and it is quite amazing what a balanced program they have built up not only for themselves, but BY THEMSELVES. I have had many times when I have woken up in the middle of the night, or in fact not even gone to sleep, and been seized by a very real and sheer panic about what we are doing.  After two or three months of this, I pulled myself together and gave myself a talking to, and if it occurs now, as it does, very occasionally, then I get up instead of lying in bed, make a hot drink of Complan, read for a bit (preferably a GWS to give me courage and support), then back to bed . . . We have come across MATHEMATICS:  A HUMAN ENDEAVOR (see GWS #7). . .Roy is using it and enjoying every minute of it.  Have you ever heard a student unable to stop talking about his math book?  That’s Roy. . . There have been some days when Roy has done math all day simply because he has found it absorbing. . . Roy, our eldest son, is a very shy but hard-thinking, hard-working boy.  He took off from school at 15 because he couldn’t stand it any more (and my goodness, we only wish he’d never gone at all).  He is doing part-time correspondence - math and science - and the rest of the time he spends in reading and writing to his very long pen-friend list.  He has friends right around the world, from a boy in the boonies in Saudi Arabia, to friends in Western countries, to a boy in Zambia whose father was formerly Zambia’s representative to the United Nations. We have been lucky enough to come across a potter who is willing to show the boys “the ropes” as far as pottery goes and without cost . . . Roy wrote to the Sea World Park at San Diego for some thoughts and information on the marine life they have there, and he received a great swag of stuff back.  He and his brothers are very thrilled and spend many happy hours playing “Islands to Icebergs,” a game which also teaches them about mammals, invertebrates, etc. . .In fact, wherever the boys have written, the doors have opened wide.  I don’t think that they have ever been turned down over anything . . .If only everyone realized that most things are there for the asking. . . . . .Roy was invited to audition for a school children’s TV quiz show.  He got through the audition and his round of the quiz has now been recorded.  It was a singularly hard round and he didn’t get through, BUT the fact that Roy was a home-schooler utterly fascinated the quiz-master. . .Every time there was a break in the questions he was after Roy asking him about home-schooling, so goodness know what will end up on TV!. . .

. . .AND ANOTHER

From David Cambell-Calder, Moehau Community, Sandy Bay, R.D., Coromandel, New Zealand:

. . .I am 36 and so far I have been learner, teacher, “headmaster,” educational broadcaster, guitar teacher, step-parent and now parent of Oliver, 2, the unschoolilng of whose life occupies the forefront of my attention much of the day.  My M.A. in French literature and my Diploma of Teaching avail me nothing in the stormy learning process that is parenting! . . .We live on a community farm by the sea in Aotearoa, about ten families, nine resident kids, others who regularly visit.  The farm is sufficiently far from the nearest school for children to be enrolled in the State Correspondence School. preschoolers get darn good bundles of stuff in the mail for parents to try and satiate their learning wanderlust.  At first grade, the materials subtly alter; the hidden curriculum and must-do start to bind the parent. Parents of school-age kids currently “pool” at a neighboring farmhouse, alternating the supervisor role.  This seems to be working rather well, and keeps our community in daily touch with the Port Charles area . . .The Port Charles community unanimously rejected proposed busing principally on the grounds of the condition of the road on the spine of the Meohau range, prone to flood damage at any time. . .Parents are used to and like the (compulsory and free) subsidized correspondence learning, which is a kind of legal teach-your-own scheme of many years standing . Our farm has houses, a pottery and  craft area, a recording studio, and envisions further buildings that have the potential to provide for a child a rich learning environment that has absolutely nothing to do with schooling, just learning . . .We really have the opportunity to invent a non-school for them here and keep it free of all but the useful resources of state education (we’ll keep the picture books, thanks).  Then what we’ll need is a Holt Associates publication which brings together all the math, reading, etc. “teaching hints” from GWS and elsewhere in one handy paperback

. . .The first room of the complex to go up will be a romping room/gym.

THE IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY

By Wendell Berry, New Age, 3/82:

. . .It was only after family life and family work became (allegedly) unnecessary that we began to think of them as “ideal.” . . .I do think that the ideal is more difficult now than it was. . .Most people now do seem to think that family life and family work are unnecessary, and this thought has been institutionalized in our economy and in our public values. . .How can we preserve family life - if by that we mean, as I think we must, home life - when our attention is so forcibly drawn away from home?. . .      . . .I am not nearly so much concerned about (public education’s) quality as I am about its length.  My impression is that the chief, if unadmitted, purpose of the school system is to keep children away from home as much as possible.  Parents want their children kept out of their hair; education is merely a by-product, not overly prized.  In many places, thanks to school consolidation, two hours or more of travel time have been added to the school day.  For my own children the regular school day from the first grade - counting from the time they went to catch the bus until they came home - was nine hours.  An extra-curricular activity would lengthen the day to eleven hours or more.  This is not education, but a form of incarceration.  Why should anyone be surprised if, under these circumstances, children should become “disruptive” or even “ineducable”? If public education is to have any meaning or value at all, then public education must be supplemented by home education.  I know this from my own experience as a college  teacher.  What can you teach a student whose entire education has been public, whose daily family life for twenty years has consisted of four or five hours of TV, who has never read a book for pleasure or even seen a book so read; whose only work has been school-work, who has never learned to perform any essential task?  Not much, so far as I could tell. We can see clearly enough at least a couple of solutions. We can get rid of the television set.  As soon as we see that the TV cord is a vacuum line, pumping life and meaning out of the household, we can unplug it. . .And we can try to make our homes centers of attention and interest.  Getting rid of the TV, we understand, is not just a practical act, but also a symbolic one; we thus turn our backs on the invitation to consume; we shut out the racket of consumption.  The ensuing silence is an invitation to our homes, to our own places and lives, to come into being.  And we begin to recognize a truth disguised or denied by TV and all that it speaks and stand for; no life and no place is destitute; all have possibilities of productivity and pleasure, rest and work, solitude and conviviality that belong particularly to themselves.  These possibilities exist everywhere, in the country or in the city, it makes no difference.  All that is necessary is the time and the inner quietness to look for them, the sense to recognize them, and the grace to welcome them.  They are now most often lived out in the home gardens and kitchens, libraries, and workrooms.  But they are beginning to be worked out, too, in little parks, in vacant lots, in neighborhood streets.  Where we live is also a place where our interest and our effort can be . . .

Page Two

Saturday, July 1st, 2006

ON THE ROAD

From Rachael S. (NV), in Florida:

. . .I keep remember that when I first started taking pictures, a photographer friend (who taught me how to process film in exchange for my babysitting her infant) told me that one can always see more to photograph when one is travelling; the trick is to keep one’s eyes like traveller’s eyes even at home. Well, we have travellers’ eyes, ears, and minds - empty but intricate vessels into which every breath is a new and fresh experience. In being absent from her good old buddies, Briana (5) has taken to writing letters, both pictorial and verbose.  She reads from memory all kinds of books and picks out words on signs everywhere.  She wants to know the meaning of all the numbers, too - 55 mph, 1.09/gal, 69 cents/pack, 1525 NE 142nd St - and so we talk about speed, money, maps, distance, time, temperature, decimals.  What she’s ready for, she pursues, the rest is exercise for me and Fisher.  She asked recently, “What is a chemical?” and we both were at a loss for a clear explanation. Lots of thinking to do.  Then there was the biggie:  Where do people come from - where DID they come from (i.e. where did the first mother come from?)  Thank goodness for stories.  Soon after, we found ourselves in the Miami Planetarium which offers a lovely explanation in its show “Child of the Universe.”  The two stories were not too conflicting, fortunately. So much for the knowledge of “things,” which comes sooner or later.  The important stuff now is learning how to live in the world.  Just now I am at yet another campground where Briana is playing with some fairly restricted kids.  Parents spend much time and energy with reprimands, warnings, threats of physical abuse, etc. Briana and John-Eli (2) watch silently as kids who are doing just what she’s doing (climbing on a fence, swimming into deep wter, running on pavement, shouting with glee, using scissors) are yelled at - often ineffectively, but it’s ugly to listen to - or hauled off physically.  Worse, I think, is when they are rewarded for “good” behavior with sweets.  Of course, Briana tries to exact such promises of sweets from us and doesn’t succeed, but neither is she abused by us and I think she appreciates the difference in approach. Then I hear from the old couples, “Your chidren are so well-behaved/bright/friendly/sure of themselves,” and I want to say, “That’s because I’m well-behaved,” but I think it would be misunderstood.  What I mean is that I occassionally have to stop myself from issuing unreasonable demands, and ocasionally I don’t stop myself.  When the latter happens, I see the effect. Both kids react with equally unreasonable demands, or demands unreasonably phrased.  I know when I’ve been in a lousy frame of mind because Briana is treating me with the same arrogance I’ve used with her.  Instant lesson.  One night I suggested we both be silent for five minutes while Fisher timed it.  After the reflective silence on both our parts, we all had a lovely evening. The only reason Fisher and I can see for sending the kids to school is to have time to ourselves.  This is a real problem now, without babysitters or playgroups.  The light I see at the end of the tunnel is finding people (we already know many) who have special things to teach the kids and who would spend half-days or more with them.  That or a governess, as Patricia Joudry had. The kids (all kids) need gentle reminders that they need to be considerate of other people and property.  That’s really about all.  In this way, John-Eli - after a few vague suggestions -decided to use the potty about a week ago.  He has had two or Šthree accidents (as with any new skill) but knows what he’s about.  All this with no bribery or tears.  He knows he has to wear clothes when he wanders into the wider world, not for his shame, but because he knows people talk about his nakedness with bad feelings sometimes.  He sees bed as a warm and comfortable place to sleep, not a desolate prison, removed from company. So where are the terrible twos?  No sign of them so far - except when Briana tries to overmother him. . . .Thanks so much for having THE BEAR’S TOOTHACHE on your list.  That was the first book Briana ever read from memory, the first book John-Eli mentioned by name:  “Ooowwoo.”  We have these things on tape, too:  Briana reads the book (one version has me reading it) and John-Eli supplies the sound effects. . . .John-Eli does not distinguish between up and down (it’s all “up”), in or out (”out”), off or on (”on”), and neither does Briana distinguish some letters and numbers; forward and backward versions occur willy-nilly - less now with letters, but still with numbers.  She says it doesn’t matter; when it does, she’ll do it right, I guess. . . .Briana first became interested in maps on the boat almost a year ago (GWS #23). The boat charts were great because of all the landmarks she could ee.  But road maps, which are what we use most now, are not as easy to follow.  Bodies of water and winding roads (around moutains) are the only real landmarks she can connect with reality . . .Yesterday we went to the MetroZoo in Miami - a really lovely place. . .Briana took charge of the map, with such authority!  It was a pictorial map with letters and numbers indicating points described in a key.  She picked that up immediately and began asking me, by pointing to the name of the animal - not the number - what we were going to see next. It was all just the right size for her; she could see our progress along the path without losing track due to vast distances.  In addition, each animal was described on a sign near its home.  There were picture symbols for its habitat, diet, time of activity, and a letter indicating its condition in the wild: Common, Rare, Threatened, or Endangered.  The map had more information on all these things too.  There was an enormous amount to talk about.  We were there for almost seven hours. Fisher had been working and missed being with us, but Briana brought out her map that night after dinner and took him on a tour of the whole place - completely accurately. No detail was out of place - where John-Eli played with the goat, where we had lunch near the parrots, where the monorail is being built and crosses the road into an open field.  If it had been a test, I would have given her an A+. Lost of ideas come to my mind on this.  She’s drawn some maps, but none too close to reality.  Perhaps it might interest her more now to make a map of our motorhome, present campground, or whatever.  I also found a puzzle map with the USA on one side, the world on the other.  She loves puzzles . . .It’s time to put up maps of our home town when we get back - the ones from the Boston Redevelopment Authority that show every house . . .And a globe.  She goes wild for the huge ones she’s seen in the science museums. Another goodie was visiting Vizcaya, a wildly decadent Šmansion built around the turn of the century.  Briana and John-Eli (actually all of us, eventually) spend some time in a maze of hedges.  Now it’s one thing to do a maze on paper, which Briana is good at, and another to find your way through a maze of waist-high hedges, and for John-Eli, well, he was the proverbial rat in the maze.  Briana found her way, though, to the center and out again. John-Eli just came to tell me about a mud-dauber nest he found - beautifully hung from the branch of a small tree - he’s been watching it for at least fifteen minutes.  Briana is swimming longer and longer stretches around the pool . . .I am struck with how far I have come from my days as a Hollow Reed Schoolmother.  There, I still thought Briana needed school for some things.  Now I find we have to undo some of the ideas of discipline, peer group pressure, and schedule for the convenience of the school which even that small, caring, “alternative” school gave her . . .

J.P.’S WORLD

From Kathy M. (IL):

. . .J.P. (3) and I have a good technique for handling situations like Susan Richman’s “Knife Story” (GWS #25). .  .If a relative or a little old lady at a garage sale comes down on my son, I just tell J.P. to please not do that right now because it’s upsetting the person, and it’s not nice to upset people. I’ve never tried to give J.P. any illusions about adults being any different from children, so when I point out, perfectly openly, that they’re nervous types (like mommies), or tired, or don’t know as much about some gadget as he does, he mostly looks at them with sympathic interest, which is devastating to the inflated adult ego . . . One time a visiting relative, who is a dear, loving person but a trifle, um, overwhelming at times, unexpectedly ordered J.P. off a chair because she thought he’d fall.  J.P. was surprised and offended, but I explained to him, very clearly, that even though Auntie looks like a grandma-lady, grandmas are mommies, too, and all mommies tend to be nervous about little children hurting themselves even if they’re not their own children (The baby talk is for the benefit of the adult - just to make sure they get the message.  J.P. and I have discussed the aberrations of mommies before - he thinks they’re silly, but cute).  I told him that when he jumps on his chair like that, it makes Auntie see scary pictures of little kids falling and getting hurt, and it makes her feel bad.  I said that maybe some other little boy she loved had hurt himself like that, or maybe she did when she was little and her mommy was upset, and that’s what she’s looking at.  J.P. thought that was all very interesting and got down off the chair, assuring her in a very kindly way, that he doesn’t fall off chairs, and Auntie seemed to feel understood - though a little taken aback - rather than hurt. . . .We try to always acknowledge J.P.’s communications, and we try not to evaluate for him or invalidate what he tells us. He’s gotten interested in television commercials lately, and all those ads have been whipping him into a state of wanting everything he sees.  I’d been arguing with him and telling him, “No, you can’t have that, we don’t have the money, and anyway, all that stuff is no good,” and he was just geting crazier and crazier.  Suddenly I took another look at what he was saying -his exact words were, “Mommy, I want to buy a ________.”  I had never gotten and acknowledged his original communication, and all my arguments were a non-sequitur - and what’s more, I was taking something away from him by spoiling his game.  Now I answer him -”OK, I hear you - if you want that thing, you pull in the money for it and you buy it . . .”  Now he’s perfectly happy, telling me all the things he wants, and I just say, “OK, fine, son,” and we’re in perfect accord - no need to argue at all (except when he wants candy - we still argue about that).  He’s been very understanding about my financial inadequacies, and he says he’s going to buy me everything I want, too - that will be nice. . . .I never omit the technical details of whatever I’m showing J.P. even though they’re way over his head . . .When he wants me to play card games with him, I tell him all the rules I know, and then we bend them.  I just assume that he knows what he’s doing at least as well as I do, which isn’t too far wrong, with cards - the only games I know are “War” and “Fish.”  I make him hold his end of the game up (by threatening to quit if he doesn’t) and I keep up the speed of the game by telling him which card to play, and showing him what it looks like.  Pretty soon he’s playing his hand practically by himself, even though he doesn’t “know his numbers” yet!  I don’t make any fuss about that - after all, he’s just doing what you’re supposed to in the game - and of course, I don’t criticize him (beyond telling him that if he’s going to sit on the cards, I won’t play).  What does delight him no end is if I complain when I lose and gloat when I win (which I manage to do in fairly equal proportion) - “Ha-ha, you didn’t beat me this time!”  Actually, the best compliment you can give a kid - or anyone, I guess - is that they’ve somehow created a real effect on you, and are a force to be reckoned with.  J.P. chortles with evil glee when I call him a “dratted kid.”  Now that’s real praise! . . .As children, we’re mostly taught to hold in our hostilities and clam up when we have a problem. . .but I don’t want to do that to my son.  I want J.P. to know when (and how) he’s made me mad, and that I still love him every bit as much as before, and also know that it’s O.K. for him to be angry with me. I lose my temper rather a lot, but I do try not to lose my sense of humor. . . .The mother from New England who wrote in GWS #24 about “Hiding From School” and mentioned trying to do things with her kids and having the 18-month-old toddler climbing all over the project has my absolute sympathy - J.P. was just that kind of character.  (He’s calmed down a bit now, but I still don’t like to start some things until he’s safely in bed). . . I found that the only way to deal with him was to show him how to do everything, and help him do it right.  (At the moment, J.P. is in the bathroom, happily washing his socks in the sink.  He was dipping his sock in the cat’s water dish, because, as he said, he likes dipping his socks in water, so I sent him to the bathroom Što do the thing properly, soap and all.  J.P. loves soap. Strange kid.) The thing is, if this  18-month-old is as much like J.P. as he sounds, his main concern in life is learning how things work and how to do things properly - now, immediately, and this very second!  J.P. is easy enough to handle if you just take his passions seriously and that means show him how to do everything you’re doing, and make sure he finishes.  You can’t ever treat him as though he’s too little to do something - in fact, you have to make sure he gets results (even if you have to almost do the thing for him at first) and admire the outcome.  Sure, it’s exhausting, but at least he’s happy and busy, and in the meantime you can do something yourself.  Once kids get to be 3 or 4 the system starts to pay off, because they don’t need so much supervision, and they’ve learned to trust your directions (that’s why you insist they finish things.  They’ll lose faith in you and themselves both if they don’t get the results they wanted.)  And of course, as a sort of by-product of maintaining (relative) peace and sanity, you get a very capable kid . . .

ON LEARNING RECORDS

From Louise Melson in N.C.:

. . .In GWS #23, the item about keeping learning records by Karen Cox made me remember a morning not long ago with my grandchildren.  Their activities from 8 AM to 11 AM, none of which were suggested by any adult, could have fitted under the four headings. They listened to a story record, listened to me read aloud, played on swings, took a walk.  Susanna (7) read to us from a book about dinosaurs and showed us how she is teaching herself to play the piano.  Both children built things with Lego blocks which require some math certainly.  They also did some drawing. So that morning included some Reading, Logical Thinking, Knowledge of the Physical World, and Musical Thought.  Also, I can add another heading which school administrators might approve - Physical Education . . .

And from Debbit Jones (ID):

. . .One thing that has helped me a lot is the suggestion in GWS #23 about keeping track of things in those non-traditional categories. I love it because it gives me a lot of confidence in defending our way of doing things to family friends and other home-schoolers.  People are always calling me up to find out more about our home school.  They ask, “What do you do?”  I felt awful about saying “Nothing,” but now I don’t say “Nothing.”  We do tons of things, as shown by my records.  It is really great . . .

NOTHING TO DO

From an article by Debra Stewart in the North West Unschoolers Project, reprinted in the The H.O.U.S.E. Door, 5/82:

. . .Whenever my children say that there’s nothing to do, I try to restrain the feeling that I am responsible for entertaining them every minute.  My upbringing conditioned me to think that to be a good mother, I should keep my children busy and happy all the time.  But now I say to my child, “Why don’t you sit right there in that chair until you think of something you would like to do?”  You know, they usually sit for about 5 minutes.  I try to boost the hugs and conversation that I have with that child, realizing that his “nothing to do” may be a “pay attention to me.”  But mainly, I try to have faith in him.  To think of his as a person with ups and downs in energy and mood. To think that soon he will be thoroughly involved with some vital project, and that it is good to reevaluate from time to time.  In other words, feel discontent, and sit and do nothing . . . . . .I’ve come to think of it as absorption time.  My children have time out when they’re fed up . . .So I respect their cycles . . .We don’t expect ourselves to be at peak efficiency, but it’s funny how many of us are expecting it of our children. . . .You’ll find that as your family becomes closer, the cycles of all its members will fall into a rhythm and will complement each other.  When I’m down, my husband is often up, for example.  It’s a new experience for many of us, to be together so much.  sometimes frustrating, but more often wondrous

CHILDREN’S DISPUTES

Arthur H. (NH) wrote in Peacework, 1/82:

. . .With our own children (Emily, 5 and Max, 2), we try to follow the Montessori concept of leltting them work out their own disputes, except to send them outdoors or separate them if it becomes too noisy.  If kids argue about a toy, it seems pointless to impose a “just” settlement on them.  It might be helpful to take the toy to the dump and make a corresponding simplification in our own lives.  I try to limit my comments to the general: “Your friends won’t like you so much if you don’t let them play with your things.” . . .Gun-play should be stoutly opposed.  It is one good reason to ban TV and school from our lives, and for being choosy about playmates.  I insist that half of my child’s time with another child must be at home where I can see what is going on. Nonviolence, as understood in the pacifist movement, is too vague and contradictory to mean much to young children.  On the other hand, they can be sensitive to ethical laws which escape us. For example, I recall some years ago a group of pacifist and anti-nuke people enacting a drama about someone they didn’t like. When Emily, then 14 months old, heard our sarcastic laughter, she cried for 45 minutes, longer than ever before in her life, and she was upset for several days afterward.  perhaps this was her first strong taste of vioence. . . .This subject forces one to ask, “What is violence?” Most pacifist definitions boil down to this:  anything which horrifies us is violent.  Some are a bit more precise and say Šthat the use of force or coercion is violence.  But when a two-year-old pushes or hits someone, it seems far-fetched to call that violence. I would say we commit violence when we try to injure or humiliate someone by means we would think unjust if used against us.  Let us see the motive and the circumstance, not just the simple act.  Therefore, most infant hitting, much fist-fighting, and even some cases of killing an aggressor in genuine self-defense should not be called violent. . .

UNWANTED HELP

From Virginia F. San Francisco, CA:

. . .I just re-read THE CONTINUUM CONCEPT . . .I was impressed with the idea of giving the child help when he asks for it but not otherwise offering.  I’ve practiced this when academic-type learning was involved but was surprised to notice how often I offer unsolicited help to my 5-year-old - tying shoes, opening doors, putting on jackets - and then resent being asked to do these same things.  Now I’m trying to save my energy so I’ll have it when it’s needed and appreciated.  It seems like such a simple turn-around (though I frequently have to remind myself not to offer) but it’s making a difference in our household . . .

ON SECURITY

Dr. Christine G. (GWS #26, “From Australia”) wrote: . . .When we were more isolated (Ami would have been about 5), Ami regularly asked for friends during the day when they were at kindergarten or school.  During this time, I was pre-occupied with a number of domestic and social commitments and was feeling tired and run-down.  Not much company!  Eventually we managed to arrange regular contacts with a variety of differently aged home-educated children, and we have had a lot of exciting outings  and experiences either alone or together with other families. Then, when we were stricken with illness for a long time on and off (one or both children were contagious), we spent a long time together alone . . .One day she said, “Mum, have you noticed that I haven’t been asking for my friends lately?”  I said, “Yes.”  And then she added, “And I don’t really want to see them that much anymore . . .” Just now I have been reading Joseph Pearce’s book MAGICAL CHILD, and he talks about peer contact in a way which I can only now understand, having had the above experience with Ami. She was feeling secure (”bonded”) and obviously adequately stimulated, and that was enough for just then in her life.  Since then, she only asks for someone (not necessarily her age) about once, maybe twice a week. Pablo (2) is enjoying life so much and is so continally contented and curious and delightful and funny, that sometimes I find myself gasping.  He is still intensely interested in music, actively exploring rhythms in a very systematic way, sometimes singing in accompaniment to his beats, sounding somewhat like his Šforebears must have done thousands of years ago!  His love of the moment is performing music (on any instrument) and very often he finds anything that remotely looks like a microphone and sings into it like a minature Pavarotti!. . .

AT HOME IN ITHACA

Nancy W., Ithaca, NY  14850) writes:

. . .We are right across the street from a park, and when Bob put up a tree swing, it attracted children like flies, so Vita and Ishamael have made lots of friends, and they all seem to be really nice.  But now that we have what we wanted - friends for the kids - I sometimes wonder if it is really desirable. Vita, for example, has become a potential consumer for the first time in her life.  She often says, “Mommy, you should see what Carey has.  I want one, too.”  And after playing hard all during Easter vacation, she came up to me after the kids had gone back to school and said, “I’m bored.”  It  was the first time I’d ever heard her say that, and it took her three or four days to get back to being her old self again. Now, with school back in session, we really seem to have the best of both worlds.  Vita has a quiet day to read, play by herself, and play music, and then after 3:00 she can play with other kids.  Ishmael, meanwhile, has made friends with a young composer who has introduced him to Schubert Lieder and it is lovely seeing them work and play at the piano together. . . . . .Vita started printing when she was about 3 or 4, moved on to cursive, then to a really elaborate squiggly cursive, and then on to typing, by which time she had almost entirely forgotten how to print.  When people found out that she could type and was only six, they wer universally impressed, but I didn’t dare add that her printing wasn’t worth beans.  Meanwhile, her spelling was atrocious, although she typed stories, letters, and “books” copiously.  In desperation I got her a spelling book, the kind with ruled lines to help her print neatly.  And print she did!  She loved it and would painstakingly print out her spelling words, getting the heights of all her capital and lower case letters perfect.  BUT she became so self-conscious about spelling that she stopped writing. At first I was upset, but then I decided that the whole thing was funny as could be.  So much for my interference!  Now we are back to the copious writing, the misspelling, and the printing.  What will it be next? . . .

PICK AND CHOOSE

From Christine M. (NY):

. . .Reading GWS is the yoga and aerobics of my mind.  What a workout!  My mind becomes rich and fertile while reading GWS. It takes me three times as long to read it than it normally should take  because I read for a few minutes and then think about how what I just read applies to my life and family and how I can act on it.  Then my brain nags me to put my thoughts on paper so it can be empty and available for more thoughts!    There are so many good suggestions in GWS written by many lovely people - all of whom I’d like to meet.  I sometimes feel overwhelmed because I would like to follow through on all of them.  but that would make me a zombie with no time left for the children!  And then again, some of the ideas overlap simply because at the basis  of all of them is the following point:  we must allow them to grow and learn what they want, when they want, as they want, when the interest is there. There is no need to do all of the good suggestions. We must take what is most applicable to and effective in our situation and always, always, just BE available to assist our children as they request.  How I would love to do all of it - enroll my children in classes of their interest, take them here and there to experience museums, glass factories, etc., etc., buy them volumes of interesting books, record all of their activities on paper, etc., etc., ETC.!  But alas, I’d be burned out in two, maybe three days. The best thing for me to do is to let them reveal to me what they want me to help them with and then draw on one or two of those many great suggestions which would best facilitate my helping them.  How I would have loved to have pursued my education in that way! . . .

REPETITIVE READING

Howard R.(PA) wrote:

. . .As both a home-schooler and a reading teacher I can help give parents some ammunition for use in arguments with administrators. Susan Price (GWS #24) and other home-schoolers who have been following up on their children’s desires to have stories read to them again and again have been teaching their kids to read through the method of repetitive reading.  S. Jay Samuels, the foremost reading psychologist of our day, wrote an article in The Reading Teacher (1/79) in which he advocated that repetitive reading be included in reading programs in the schools.  He did some experimenting with second graders and found that when they repeatedly read a story out loud they became faster and more accurate with each succeeding reading.  Moreover, their improved rate and accuracy carried over, to a certain extent, to the next story they read. In my reading classes I’ve tried a variation of this method and found that when seventh grade students repeatedly listen to a story or watch the words while they listen to a story, their reading rates improve. In his article Samuels noted that textbooks used for teaching reading in America’s past such as the seventeenth century hornbooks and the new England Primer used prayers and verses which the children already knew for teaching reading.  On the other hand in our schools today children having difficulty with reading are moved so rapidly through the reading textbooks that they never master a single page . ..(See “Choral Reading,” GWS #3).

REAL BOOK AS PRIMER

From Sharon H. (MN):

. . .Last week, my first-grader found THE RISE AND FALL OF THE THIRD REICH on the library shelves.  He knewit was about world War II because of the swastika.  (His sister Holly has had a big interest in that war - she read ANNE FRANK and many other stories about that era.  She talks about it so my boys learn too.)  Anyway, he insisted on checking out that huge book and he goes through it, finding words he can figure out.  It’s hilarious to see him carry it around.  It’s become his primer.

STARTED A NEWSPAPER

A letter in The Mother Earth News, July ‘82:

. . .I read your article about writing a neighborhood newspaper (in “Mother’s Children,” Issue 71), and it sounded like so much fun, I had to try it.  Also, I wanted to be working on something important, and when you’re eight years old, that’s hard to do.  Now, my neighbors love my WASHINGTON AVE. REPORTER, and we’re all getting to know each other better. I love the newspaper business.  (I hate writing it all up by hand though . . .I have GOT to learn to type.)  There are 75 homes now in my paper’s circulation.  I have two people helping . cartoon and an “unusual facts” feature.  I discovered the more people who help, the less I have to do! I’m glad THE MOTHER EARTH NEWS gave me the idea for this wonderful business.  A reporter from the DAILY NEWS interviewed me about it (and let me interview her for my paper), and I’ve gotten lots of nice letters of encouragement . . . even one from a senator, and I can’t vote yet! - Misty W., Whittier CA

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WORD GAMES

From Ruth M.:

\. . .My daughter Abigail (7), who is fascinated with words right now, likes to play a game we first saw in the movie “A Christmas Carol.”  We take turns, starting with A and going through the entire alphabet, saying, “The minister’s cat is a(n) ________ cat,” inserting a different adjective each time.  It’s supposed to be done in rhythm and without too much break in between, so some of the “words” she comes up with have dubious meaning.  It’s fun to do in the car and in places where one must wait for whatever reason. Other good “waiting games’ are:  Twenty Questions, pick a number between 1 and anything and see who can guess the closest, and humming version of “Name That tune,” and Hangman.  I’m always amazed at peoople who bring children to restaurants, etc. and can’t think of anything better to do than fuss at them for being restless.  Then of course there are always lots of things that can be done on the back of a paper placemat.

FRENCH BOOKS AND SONGS

From Maggie Edmondson (ME):

. . .I was thrilled to find children’s books in French at our local library.  Both Joe (then 2 1/2) and Anna (then 1 1/2) enjoyed being read to in French.  They hav never yet asked for a translation and I have fought off the temptation to do it.  One of the first books we borrowed was a selection of French songs, and in just three weeks, they were singing along with them, and because of its excellent illustrations and the actions that go along with the songs, they picked up the meaning of a lot of the words. We do a lot of singing at home and in the car, and I find it amazing how many songs they have memorized.  They now know the words and tunes of all the French songs and hundreds of English ones.  The musical qualities have also improved tremendously -sometimes they stay in tune for a whole line - at least they always go in the right direction at the right time. . .

USEFUL LIBRARY SERVICES

. . .Wisconsin has an excellent “mailbox” library system. We send a postage-paid card to the central library in our county asking for any books we want.  They get these books from libraries all over the state and send them to us with all postage paid.  We’ve gotten many excellent books this way, a good portion of them being new and unusual.  We simply mail them back to the central library when we’re finished and before the due date.  In the last four years since we’ve left the city and have no TV, we’ve done more reading than ever before! —MARIE BAKER (WI). (DR:  In some states, this service is offered through the State Library in the capital city.)

. . .I want to mention the Inter-Library Loan Service.  You ask your local public library for whatever book you desire and, presto, in one week to two months, I have received books, photocopies of articles, etc. from all over the United States. This used to be free - now I am charged for postage.  I take notes or photocopy what I need. —BOB POST (IN).

IN PRAISE OF CHESS

Norm L. (NY) writes:

. . .We wrote an illustrated chess instruction manual for kindergarteners when Henry was 6, Russell 5.  I don’t know where it is now.  They weren’t so very good at it:  I beat them one out of three regularly!  (By junior high school I beat them routinely.  I hadn’t improved:  they deteriorated insightwise. Alas.) . . .To us, it’s the only game.  Instead of playing cards or doing crossword puzzles, we read books.  Instead of playing tennis or handball, we fell oak trees and cut them up for firewood and otherwise thin and improve the woodlot.  Instead of ŠMonopoly, we garden.  But Chess!  All other games are but cheap substitutes. It’s been around since the time of Buddha.  Imagine a game where each piece has its own individual personality and power!  A world of 64 squares - 64 different views of reality!  128, really:  one view if black, another if white. Those who dislike chess have thought it as a game of “figuring things out,” of outsmarting “opponents.”  Wrong.  It is a game of seeing.  Henry and Russell would squeal when, with a blink, they’d see the reality of the relationships among the pieces . . . (JH:  that was my problem when I tried chess - I was so busy trying to figure out what was happening on the board, I couldn’t see it.)

GLENN DOMAN MATH

Debbie K. (CA) writes:

. . .Mariam (16 months) has been gobbling up her math.  We are using the dot system from TEACH YOUR BABY MATH by Glenn Doman and she loves it.  She begs us to show her the “bers,” as she calls them.  We love this system.  It takes so little time and if Glenn’s suggestions are followed it helps build a positive association with math.  The thing we love the most about it is that the system works only if you don’t test.  As Glenn states in the book, the child will show you soon enough that they are absorbing the information.  It took Mariam five months before she showed us that she really knew her math.  It was hard to resist the temptation to test but we’re glad we didn’t. We are quickly discovering that life is one of the best teachers.  David is home with Mariam all day and they do everything together.  If daddy hammers, Mariam hammers; if he makes bread, she makes bread.  This is nothing more insulting to her than to be left out of something that we are doing . . .

MATH IN THE REAL WORLD

Cher Bateman (NV) wrote:

. . .Jeb (7) told me that he met a boy in the toy department while I was shopping, and the boy, who told Jeb he was in the third grade, couldn’t understand Jeb not going to school (which is common), so Jeb told the boy that he might go to high school or college.  The little boy said, “You’ll never graduate!  Okay, what’s 1000 take away 10?”  Jeb thought for awhile and said “990.”  The little boy said, “There’s no such thing!” . . .Daniel (5) mentioned doing a job for Daddy that he might pay him 2000 pennies for.  I asked Jeb how many dollars that would be.  He said, “$20,” with no hesitation.  Then he asked me how we’d get money for all those pennies; I told him we’d have to go to the bank and get penny rolls.  I said, “There’s 50 pennies to a roll.  How many rolls would $20 make?” He said immediately “40.”  I said immediately “You guessed!  How many rolls make a dollar?”  He said, “2.”  I said, “How did you Šget the answer so quick?”  He said, “You double it.”  Then as I was trying to recover some inner balance, he said, in a very unthreatening tone, “You better give yourself time to figure it out next time.” . . .

Becky H. (AR) wrote:

. . .We’ve become a lot more relaxed in our home education. Sometimes I feel guilty about not being diligent at all with lessons and such, but, I just don’t like doing it that way. Neither do the kids.  And it doesn’t work as well. . . .The kids amaze me.  They learn so much, so well!  My youngest, when she was 4, came up to me and said, “Hey, guess what?  Three times two is six!”  I was too surprised to do anything but gape and say, “That’s true!”  There had been NO “math teaching” of any kind.  I discovered later, listening and watching her one day when it was her turn to give out the Vitamin C tablets to the other two and herself, how this came to her. She took out six tablets, gave to each, saying, “See?  Three kids, two C’s each, six tablets.  Three times two is six!”  I asked her if she knew that was called “multiplication.”  She said, “No, but that’s okay.” . . .

COMPUTERS

Debbie J. wrote in the IDAHO FAMILY EDUCATION ASSOCIATION newsletter:

. . .Many of the Idaho Home Schoolers have opted to buy home computers of late . . .We have been home schooling for 3 years now and during this time have only passively considered a computer as a practical educational resource.  So why did it suddenly become a priority, a viable option?  I believe it happened for two main reasons; One:  the price of home computers has dropped drastically within the last four years until now it has come within the range of most middle income families.  Two: enough people finally have enough knowledge and access to computers to begin to write programs.  Hundreds of educational programs are now available from early reading and math skills through calculus and other college level subjects.  One program available now that especially sparked our interest is LOGO (See “Mindstorms,” GWS #24). . .

The Boston Phoenix, 5/11/82:

. . .With the personal-computer industry booming, the Boston Computer Society has grown apace.  Starting in 1977 in the bedroom of a 13-year-old, it mushroomed into a 3500-member organization with ties to the leaders of all the major personal-computer companies. . . .Jonathan Rotenberg started the BCS when he was a (high school) freshman. . .Rotenberg wrote to a local industry leader asking why there weren’t any computer clubs in Boston.  The man suggested starting one. In February 1977, the Boston Computer Society’s inaugural Šmeeting was held. . .Two people showed up - a friend of Rotenberg’s co-founder and somebody who happened to be working late at school.  “That’s when I first learned about promotion.” . . .The turning point came in 1978, when Rotenberg’s proposal to invite computer stores to a meeting evolved into “Home/Business Computers ‘78,” a major public exhibition at Boston University, with 48 participants.  In seven hours some 1000 people streamed through and BCS membership shot from 70 to 225. “That’s when I called myself president.” Rotenberg designed some stationery, invented a fictitious secretary to affix dictation initials to the bottom of his letters, and practiced his telephone voice.  He was 15. In November 1978, Rotenberg started a newsletter, the BCS Update,” then a single mimeographed sheet.  In a matter of months it had blossomed into a slick, full-color bimonthly with a circulation of 10,000. . .The BCs organized “user groups” (in which, for example, Atari users or Aple users would meet to discuss common problems) and “special interest groups” (which organized people by what they used their computers for -business, education, etc.)  Recently, the BCS has started a series of Saturday morning clinics. . . .Within the next year and half, the BCS will go national, Rotenberg says. . .As for Rotenberg himself, his contacts and reputation in the computer industry will leave him with no shortage of opportunities after he graduates from Brown in two years.  “People are wondering which company is going to get me.”  But Rotenberg is making no commitments.  “The BCS might end up being my life.  It’s becoming such a formidable organization.”. .

From Kelly Ellenburg (OR):

. . .Computers are now available for home and small business use for $400 to $1,000. . .with lots of “extras” and software coming on the market all the time.  Still, that  is a lot of money to pay out, and which one to get?  After comparing them all, we came down to three that were in our price range, were dependable companies, and lots of software for the uses we wanted - we were not interested in “games.”  When we further found we could actually sell one of these from our home, thus paying for our unit, and make an income besides, we made up our minds.  The selling is a multi-level marketing plan (such as Amway). . .Can you imagine having to tell your child at 1 A.M. “you must go to bed now, you can’t do any more math!”  Or children up and doing spelling on the computer at 7 A.M., laughing and just having fun with it (and learning).  Or helping each other with words and “programming.”  It’s all true . . . We feel that children, home schooling and home computers go very well together.  for any home schooling friends that are interested in the marketing plan or home computers please send SASE . . .

GALVANIC SKIN RESPONSE

(DR:)  When John was in Iceland, the Knutssons showed him a Galvanic Skin Response device, called a “Biofeedback Monitor,” that they got from Radio Shack.  A GSR meter used to be a very expensive machine, $100 or more; research psychologists often use one in their experiments to measure the emotional reactions of their subjects, and it is also the basis of “lie detectors.”  So John was delighted to find that this little monitor is now available for only $14.95, cheap enough for many people to get one for their own use, and that it works better than some much more expensive ones he’d seen before. To operate the monitor, you wrap the cloth with the electrical contacts around your fingers, holding it in place with Velcro.  Unlike the expensive meters that have a gauge, this machine produces a tone - the higher the pitch, the more the tension you are experiencing.  This suggests questions to investigate - what circumstances make the reading increase? Decrease?  How do different people vary in their reactions to the same situation?  The gadget can help you practice relaxation techniques, either in general or in connection with specific tasks like playing music or taking schoolwork. John wrote more ideas on using a GSR meter in WHAT DO I DO MONDAY?, pp. 152-4.

SKY CALENDAR

From a mother in Cambridge:

. . .Here’s a good resource I came upon for children and parents learning to recognize and follow planets and stars, right from their own backyard.  I can even do it!  What fun! For $5 a year, you can receive a “Sky Calendar” for each month - information for each night’s sky observation, plus a monthly evening skies chart - a simple diagram of the sky with explanations.  “Knowing the stars” has been something I’ve been meaning to get around to studying for years now. . .This monthly information that I can just take outside on a clear night, and see it all for myself, has been wonderful. For information on subscriptions, write: SKY CALENDAR, Abrams Planetarium, Michigan State University, E. Lansing, MI 48824 . . .(*now online- http://www.pa.msu.edu/abrams/SkyCalendar/)

BIG BUGS

From David K. (VA):

. . .In the course of our nature study we acquired a tarantula last December.  A graceful and interesting animal (whose bite is never lethal, by the way), she has caused us to read the two or three library books about tarantulas and to acquire copies of the newsletter of the American Tarantula Society.  About a month ago, she spun a large webby surface, flipped herself over and molted one night, somethig an adult does about once a year.  Since then her appetite has been voracious.    Last week we found a very large beetle with long, jointed antennae and decided to put it in with our tarantula as a treat. You can imagine the thrill Carol got when next morning she found that the beetle had climbed the glass walls of the tarantularium, bit or chewed right through the fiberglass screen on top, and was lurking somewhere in the house!  Found, it was popped into a glass jar, and Robert and I went off to the Science Library at the University of Texas here in Austin to find out about it. All but one of the general beetle books had nothing but written descriptions, but HOW TO KNOW THE BEETLES had line drawings of several beetles who looked much like the one we had. It was Robert who identified our insect (page 309), a Plectrodera scalator, family Cerambycidae:  the long-horned (how appropriate for Texas!) woodborers, species cottonwood borer, described as “not very abundant but their large size and unusual pattern make them prize specimens in a collection.”  This excursion has opened the whole bug world to Robert.

SEWING WITH GRANDMA

More from Ruth M.:

. . .My daughter Alison (12) wanted a new blouse recently. I’ve finally had to admit, after years of trying to convince myself otherwise, that sewing isn’t one of my strong suits, so Alison went with my mother and bought some material.  After waiting a couple of weeks for me to help her, though I did try to help her cut it out and found we would need to piece it one or more places, she arranged to spend a night with my folks.  With my mother’s expert help, the blouse was put together overnight. Alison did most of the sewing and also helped with some housework (which she would have done anyway, but it was more important than usual). Rebeka (10) took her material for a new dress over yesterday her grandchildren learn sewing; she’s more relaxed about their learning it than she was with me.  Another reason may be my girls’ fairly relaxed attitude toward adult type equipment.  I showed them how to use record players, tape recorders, typewriters, etc. at an early age (about 3 or 4) and have never had reason to regret it.  They’ve been allowed to use the sewing machine from about age six . . .My dislike of sewing has never dampened their ardor and with Grandma as their guide, I’m sure they’ll find it’s never too late!. . .

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FREE BOOKS

From Judith S. (MO):

. . .My husand’s job moves us around a lot, so home-schooling is enjoyable as well as practical, and since we are a branch of a Missouri private school, we have few legal hassles with anyone.  so far in the past two years we have traveled from Kansas City to Ohio, Tennessee, Alabama, and Florida. . . .On arriving in Jacksonville, Florida, we met with some home-schooling friends who had access to the county school book deposit.  After being shown the materials (books, workbooks) available, we asked about prices and limits and were told that we could have as much as we wanted, free of charge.  Up to this time we had been purchasing our own books at retail prices which can get expensive.  We were able to go to the book deposit and get whole series of books on such subjects as math, science, reading, language, music, typing, business, shorthard, home economics, etc. - just about any type of book that the school had used, from 1st grade to high school. Seeing as we live in a travel trailer (shoebox!) we were unable to carry these books around with us, so we shipped them via motor freight back to our main school.  This way the other branch could share our resources as well.  When we need a certain book, we simply call our “librarian,” and for shipping we have whatever books we need for however long. . .Our girls really enjoy the “new” books and are given free, unlimited access to whatever we have with us . . . It may be possible for others to do this by calling their school and asking where the local book deposit for discarded or discontinued textbooks is.  In some areas the books are used until there is little or no value left, and in other areas, they change series after a few years as a matter of habit.  I did not have to give a reason for wanting the books or answer to anyone about how many we took (48 boxes of about 20 books per box).  The bigger the school system, the less curious anyone will be . . . You can also acquire used school desks and furniture in like manner or at very reasonable prices just by asking your local school board . . .

THE FIRST MONTHS

From Jill B. (MI):

December 18:  . . .We’ve talked to the local Assistant Superintendent in charge of curriculum.  He said that we have the right to educate our own child as we are certified teachers.  We must make sure she is learning what public-schoolers in her grade are learning. . . .I’m feeling better about the social climate of home-schooling for an only child.  Heather (6) really doesn’t get to socialize much at school and many times that 15-minute recess at noon isn’t very productive for her - a lot of negative play situations. My daughter is positive about having us “teach” her (act as resources), even though we don’t always get along, mostly when we’re too bossy.  She’s enged in all sorts of learning experiences when she’s home and many morning has to interrupt her learning to go to school . . . Jan. 31:  I’ve just fiished an intensive 3 1/2 week course in home-schooling:  reading all 24 newsletters. . . .I have attended Board of Education meetings for five years; and during the past two years, I have worked in Heather’s classroom one morning each week.  All this effort brought about little improvement in the educational climate for the students. So, after reading TEACH YOUR OWN, I concluded that home-schooling Šcouldn’t be any harder and certainly seemed to be more productive. . . .The packet of back issues arrived Jan. 5th.  By the end of dinner on Jan. 7th, we had all decided we wanted to try home-schooling immediately . . . I wrote a letter the next day requesting permission to home-school Heather; we sent it to the Assistant Superintendent in charge of instruction, a unique educator and friend that we’ve known for five years . . .Within a week, we had a positive reply, with a curriculum guide enclosed. In that week, my husband and I registered with the county as certified teachers.  I’m in the process of getting my certificate reinstated, after a 7-year lapse in employment. . . .I do not feel any more qualified to teach my child because I am a teacher with a master’s degree than any other parent.  It’s amazing how many of my friends would never consider doing what we’re doing because they feel “unqualified.”  The only reason I feel I can “teach” my child now is becuase of what happened while living with her for the last 6 1/2 years. . .For better or worse, we’ve been learning right along with her . . . Now, three weeks after our decision to begin home-schooling, we’ve been at it for one week and have obtained permission to be involved in some “school” activities.  We are telling only a few friends of our decision . . . I’m ecstatic after our first week of home-schooling.  I’m adjusting quickly to no longer having 5 hours each day by myself (now I just need to learn how to use my time most wisely to get all my work done).  My husband and I are both loners and like to have some time each day to ourselves, as well as some time together as a couple,.  Home-schooling may satisfy my need to “teach.”  I really like the flexibility of working at home.  It will also allow me to spend a lot of time in our garden, something which I really enjoy doing.  But, most of all, I like the positive changes that I see in Heather after only one week. Her attitude, manners, and motivation have all improved noticeably. . . .Already, she has a chart listing six books that she can read by herself, a feat accomplished in one week, just by encouraging her to use skills that she had already mastered but was reluctant to try to use.  In math, she has completed an addition grid (GWS #17) and partially completed a multiplication grid.  As for music (which is no longer offered at school), Heather has been learning to play my violin as well as a child’s 1 1/2 scale color-coded pipe.  She also makes up songs and dances to go along with her main interest - imaginative play. . . .INSTEAD OF EDUCATION was a real eye-opener.  Only since graduation from college in 1968 have I really been learning what I wanted and how I wanted.  Implementing my own style of teaching in the classroom, doing graduate work in reading, taking care of a household, designing and supervising construction of an energy-efficient house, producing our own food supply in an organic garden, arranging a study trip to France with my husband, caring for a child, changing our diet to a more natural one, and running a campaign to get a bike path system for our township, have all been accomplished as a result of lots of research - reading books or consulting experts in each area.  Until now, I haven’t really trusted or given much credit to my own very creative mind.  My husband and I were both raised to rely on the advice of others. . . .A neat comment:  when I was first a parent, and having difficulty with well-meaning friends and relatives giving advice on child care, a care-giver at Oakland University told a group of new mothers to respond, “You may be right. . .,” and proceed to do as you wished with your child. . .

Feb. 24:  This is our fifth week of home-schooling.  Heather balks at required activities, but we try to do reading, writing, and math every day, plus keep a journal so we can prove she’s learning equivalent things.  She would do imaginative play all day if allowed to - sometimes that bothers me, as if she’s trying to escape from something.  But she’s read 20 books in five weeks and continues to be surprised at what she can do.

(JH: In the revised edition of HOW CHILDREN LEARN, pub. 2/83, I say that children are never more seriously engaged in their work of making sense of the world than when they are busy with fantasy and play.  Those are their ways of getting into the world, not out of it.  They are children’s chief research tools.)

Mar. 5. . .The honeymoon is over.  Heather is reacting negatively to much of our imposed structure of her day.  But we’re trying to compromise for the time being, as we have to please the local school district . . .some days are great, others are lousy, as far as personality clashes go.  But things weren’t much better before.  And I’m struggling to keep a little alone time each day . . . . . .I’ve come to realize that Heather may never learn all the trivia and assorted facts and concepts I did.  But I’m beginning to believe that she may not need to, and what she learns because she wants to or needs to will, indeed, be learned, not just memorized for a test. . .

April 2. . .The third marking period ended last week in public school.  So I composed a 1 1/2 page typed progress report for Heather based on the curriculum we had submitted in January . skills listed.  She’s played with a variety of children and had some really neat discussions about all sorts of things with us (her parents). The Assistant Superintendent accepted the report and mentioned that we might want to have heather take the Metropolitan Achievement Test in May.  It’s not required.  I think I will be allowed to give it to her at home.  I agreed to the test because I want to see how Heather does.  We’re becoming less structured in our learning and I’m still not sure what sort of arrangement is best for all of us yet . . .

AN “L.D.” ALLY

From Thomas Armstrong, LATEBLOOMERS EDUCATIONAL CONSULTING SERVICES, P.O. Box 2647, Berkeley, CA  94792:

. . .What I’m writing about now concerns a new service I’ve Šcreated called LATEBLOOMERS.  I’m sending along a brochure . . . . . .I come out of the whole “learning disabilities” movement.  I got my Master’s Degree in “L.D.” in 1976 and then spent five years in Montreal, and California teaching classes for “learning disabled” kids from grade one to eight.  But all along I never believed in learning disabilities, which made my teaching experience frustrating as I could never quite see eye to eye with all the administrators, specialists and others who talked about “L.D.” as if it were some kind of germ or basic condition. . . . . .My whole Latebloomers stuff is an attempt to speak to people who are buying into the whole “learning disabilities” scam so that they can unlearn the whole mystification process which is rampant in the “learning disabilities movement” . . . I want to get feedback from people on this whole notion . . lateblooming children, children who were labeled “learning disabled” in one context (e.g. school, clinic, medical) and then in another context (e.g. homeschooling) were able to be There is so much presure on kids today to begin reading, writing, and doing math by certain critical times (usually around 7) that if they’re not then there is trouble around the corner for the child (lots of diagnostic tests, worried parents, teachers, administrators, and taunting peers).  Yet what of the kids who surmount these obstacles, or don’t have these obstacles in the first place, and read, write, and do math in “their own time” at 9, 10, 12, 15 or beyond? I would greatly appreciate it if you could pass this information on to your readers and have them pass their stories, anecdotes, feedback, sharing or other interaction to me. . . “SPECIAL ED” LAWS

Deb Martin of the Illinois group H.O.U.S.E. wrote, “Within the last three days I have had calls from four parents of handicapped children wanting to pull their children out of school home-schooling the handicapped, as far as the law goes?. . .I would like permission to share any information you write to me in a special handout I will write up.” Donna wrote back:

Thanks for your letter . . .The first thing you and the parents concerned should do is read the state law concerning special education.  Most states passed these in the 1970’s to qualify for federal money.  You should be able to get a copy from the state office handling special education, or at a law library. The Massachusetts laws on special education are called Chapter 766.  It’s clear to me from reading them that the state passed the laws to make special education available; to “provide for a flexible and uniform system of special education opportunities for all children requiring special education.” Contrary to what some educators - and parents - may assume, the state has no mandate declaring that every child in need of special education must come under their authority. So there’s nothing to stop parents from forming their own private school and enrolling their child in it, or enrolling their child in another private school, whether or not the child is considered “handicapped.”    When you read the law, you may find provisions that actually support home education.  The Mass. law does mention teaching at home as one of the “programs” a special-needs child is entitled to.  There is often a clause saying something about “education best suited for the child’s needs.”  One family in Massachusetts used this clause to argue that home education was best suited for their child’s needs, and got approval for it. Attorney Frank Cochran in Connecticut sent us details of a case in that state.  When the parents started teaching their son at home during the summer and giving him some eye exercises, his “learning disability” symptoms disappeared, and the hearing officer ruled that the boy was no longer “learning disabled.” The home education continued.  (Anyone wanting more information on this case, please send us a SASE.) Now, if parents want to teach a child at home and get the state to reimburse them for some of the unusual expenses related to the handicap, they may be able to arrange this.  That is part of the purpose of the special education laws, to reimburse programs with federal money.  Naturally the parents would have to become very familiar with the legal requirements, and be willing to deal with the bureaucracy, in order to go after this reimbursement . . . The only other thought I have is that parents of special-needs children might be more vulnerable than most parents to being accused of “neglect.”  They will need to be especially careful to document each step, and to be able to point to tangible signs of their child’s well-being, growth, and learning, such as by keeping a portfolio of their children’s work . . . ON RELIGION

Sometimes people ask us if they can form a religious private school if they do not belong to an established religion, or even if they do not believe in God.  We don’t know of any court cases that deal with that issue specifically, but the COUNCIL FOR EDUCATIONAL FREEDOM IN AMERICA (2105 Wintergreen Av SE, Washington DDC  20028; 301-336-1585) sent us a column by Harry J. Hogan in the New York Times, 5/20/79, which reads in part:

. . .We tend to think of religion as requiring belief in a transcendent God.  For most people, ultimate reality is not transcendent but immanent - “God” is understood as “nature” or a force or forces within this world.  Such is true of Buddhism and Confucianism. . . .The courts have already accepted that non-transcendent definition of religion.  In Washington Ethical Society vs. D.C. and in Fellowship of Humanity vs. County of Alameda, appeal courts held in 1957 that non-theistic humanist societies were entitled to tax exemptions as religions equal in standing to traditional theistic religions . . .In Torcaso vs. Watkins in 1961, the Supreme Court held that the plaintiff could not be denied a commission as notary public because he would not affirm a belief in God.  The Court stated that “neither a state nor the Federal Government ,. . .can aid those religions based on belief in the existence of God as against those religions founded on different beliefs.”. . . Š INFO ON G.E.D.

Bob Sessions (IA) wrote:

I have had some dealings with the G.E.D. in my work, and I think I can clarify some confusions which appeared in GWS #17. Every state has to decide three things:  (1) when they will grant the high school equivalency diploma; (2) how they will decide equivalence, and (3) who they will allow to take the equivalency tests.  To my knowledge, every state in the country has decided to use the G.E.D. tests for (2).  But the states do not own those tests; they are owned and regulated by a private agency called the American Council on Educational Testing (1 DuPont Circle, Washington DC  20036; 202-833-4770). . . .Most states decree that no one can receive the diploma until they are 18 (or until their class graduates).  However, you should distinguish between the equivalency diploma and the GED exams.  Iowa law, for example, says little about when someone can take the exams.  In fact, 17-year-olds can take the exams, and 16-year-olds on probation also can. . .

MORE THAN “HOME SCHOOLER”

Meg Johnson (NJ) wrote in the Home Education Resource Center Bulletin, Spring, 1982:

. . .I find that more and more I dislike being characterized as a “home schooler.”  It seems that that name implies that all we do when our children reach school age is add an area of schooling to the responsibilities we had toward our children at that time.  It also makes it sound like schooling is the major area of concern - I find this is true of few home schoolers, except for the fact that we must provide the education - general required by law . . .Most of us seem to be searching for a better alternative way of living and raising children, not just a substitute for institutionalized education. . .

NO TESTS GOOD

Quotes from home-schooler Jane Joyce, in the Grant’s Pass (OR) Review, 1/82:

. . .”There isn’t a test invented that can judge my children,” she contends.  “Where is the test that can measure a child’s judgement, courage or sensitivity to the world around him?” . . .”There should not be a quarrel about which methods are best.  We simply want what we honestly believe is best for us. to quarrel and point fingers is silly.  It’s  matter of exercising our options. “Look - let’s say we both go over to a bowl of fruit.  You pick an apple, and I pick an orange.  Would you think I’m against apples?” She grinned, and the determination showed through. Š SCHOOL TUTOR

From Shari Melbourne (PA):

. . .Our oldest son, John (13, 7th grade), has had severe migraine for years.  Last fall it got so bad that I convinced our pediatrician to write a letter to the school indicating that John’s migraine was so severe he required home schooling, and (precious man), he even let me draft the letter, and recommended that I be appointed tutor.  In the meantime, I taught John for two months while we were arranging all this. The school agreed to a tutor but their policy is that parents can’t teach their own.  (But did I want a job tutoring someone else’s child?  They could use more tutors!)  I decided to let them appoint a tutor and see what happened.  By this time, John’s migraine had gone from two a day to one in a six-week period. . . .The tutor for John has worked out well - she’s very relaxed and the six hours per week of teaching time she is supposed to be giving him is usually about 30 minutes’ worth. John can usually figure out most of the work himself, so only needs new assignments given and few questions answered. I might add that in the two months I worked with him, he finished the entire language arts book, about 90% of the math, and all of the social studies.  He would have finished the science as well, but it required a microscope and other lab equipment which we did not have access to.  He has since filled five looseleaf notebooks with his own research projects (science, mythology, literature, etc.) in his “spare time.” His tutor has him doing algebra, 9th grade history, and literature, and he does about 2-3 research papers a month in science, history, etc.  He is also reading 3-5 books at a time (LORD OF THE RINGS, THE CHANGELING - 200-300 pages per week) on his own, and working as a library page on Monday mornings, and was just appointed library artist (he does all of their posters for movies, library events, etc). . .He’s now taking a course in genealogy at the library - 4 weeks, 12 hours per week . . .

MORE ON TUTORS

Peter Van Daam (RI) writes:

. . .I have been pleased with Jessica’s work with her Brown University tutors (GWS #20).  The girl helping her with math concepts enlisted another girl so that they could work as a team. She has also helped us find another who is helping Jessica greatly with her violin.  Brigitta found another Brown student, very kind and giving, who is working with all three children at a public library reading program . . .

From an article in the Middlesex (MA) News, 7/4/82, about a home-schooling family in Upton:

. . .A total of seven private teachers - outside the home -Štaught the children English, piano, mathematics and general elementary education.  The seven worked for free, Mrs. Paulson says, because they wanted to show they supported the teach-at-home idea.  The teachers had been lined up previously to teach at a private school Mrs. Paulson wanted to open at her home . . .

LEARNING ON A TRUCK

Dick Gallien, the Winona Farm, E. Burns Valley Rd, Winona MN 55987:

. . .It has been 1 and 1/2 years since Glenn (7) and John (9) left school, and not one word from the system . . Last year I started driving a semi-truck after eight years’ layoff . . . John went with me to New York during a cold streak in January -we stopped in supermarkets for food, carried our dishes, milk, and bread from home.  On that trip we passed over 200 trucks frozen up; twice our brakes froze and we came to a screeching halt.  A real adventure for John and also a pleasant camping trip, with a good truck heater and stereo. . . .When loading or unloading the truck with John along, dock workers would ask why he wasn’t in school.  Since non-schooling is my favorite topic, I would tell them the truck and the world is our school.  Then I’d half-jokingly say that John was looking at different work areas to see what he might want to aspire to, and ask whether there were any jobs in their area they might recommend.  Inevitably they would say that there wer eno jobs there he would want, and when I’d ask what they would recommend, they’d suggest doctor or lawyer.  i would guess that if most adults were confronted on the job with a young, wide-eyed boy and asked whether they would recommend his aspiring to take their position someday, they woulld automatically say no. I get so hungry to tell the world about how great it is to have our kids home.  Yesterday, while John and I were fixing fence, we noticed one of the Canada geese was off its nest.  That afternoon she was still off, so we checked and the nest of down was full of egg chips.  A short distance away we found the pair, the female with her wings fanned out, and then a tiny golden head would dart out and grab at a blade of grass.  As we watched the pair and their five new ones, I was telling John how this, right here today, is life, not tomorrow or next year . . . . . .Would still like to find some young person who would want to live with us awhile and see what they think of our lifestyle (GWS #23, “People/Places”).  I signed up with SATIVA (GWS #21), a system for lining up people who will work for room and board on organic farms.

ON A FARM

Nadine G. (Dick’s wife) sent the following mimeographed letter to friends and relatives:

. . .As many of you know by now, our boys do not go to school anymore . . .I hope that this letter will tell you a bit about the “how,” further explain the “why,” and answer some of the questions that most people have about  home-schooling. . . .The boys left a school that we had, for the most part, been happy with.  We know, however, that as the years went by it would be less and less desirable for them.  Also, we felt that for home education to be most effective it would be best if they didn’t spend too many years being “directed.”  So with just a little hesitation on my part, we took them out of school . . . Neither Dick nor I hold a current teaching certificate any longer, but have had an education which is “essentially equivalent” (Minn. state law wording) to certified public school teachers.  So, the superintendent seemed to feel comfortable that we satisfied legal requirements and did not give us any problems. He only requested that we give quarterly attendance reports! One question we hear a lot has to do with the children missing out on the social aspects of school.  We are not isolated here and each has friends with whom they can get together periodically.  In the meantime, they have each other and they get along quite well together.  Like us, they can choose the who, when, and where for their socializing.  On the negative side, I could cite examples of behavior picked up at school from peers that we could do well without. Along these lines I have come to realize that with most children, their “social skills” are well developed before they enter school, since they have already been around many other people, both children and adults.  All too often a child who has had no problems relating to others before school finds difficulties once there. With the various groups, families, and individuals who stop here at the farm (see “People/Places,” GWS #23), the children have opportunities to meet many new people.  Kirstin is eager to run out to be with other small people or start a conversation with adults about her new shoes or sunglasses.  Glenn has been known to run after some strangers who came to visit the farm and tell them everything he knows.  They are becoming social beings and we don’t feel school could do as well. How do we carry on their education?  For the most part we follow their leads.  At first, we used reading books they had from school.  But I soon realized that Glenn was reading by a method not at all like his book was using and John was not happy with the material in his book.  So now we use whatever reading matter is around.  What with a stack of library books always present, magazines, and newspapers, there is a wide variety of printed words to learn from. The boys have math workbooks from school also and they get Šthose out frequently for something to do.  John always has numbers in his head and can figure out answers I’d have to put on paper.  He also likes to have me give him problems or basic facts as I go about my housework.  It is surprising how much arithmetic there is around us that we adults don’t think about. Fractions appear in recipes and on tools; money amounts show up in discount ads that the kids always look over; measurements for the many improvement projects going on or weighing feed for individual cows; temperature on outdoor thermometer; time on digital and standard clocks - these are all areas the kids come in contact with daily as they watch the days and months pass on their calendars. We have U.S. and world maps on the wall by the table.  They are quickly getting a feel for what is where.  Time magazine and the newspaper are both interesting journals they enjoy having read to them. We do not have a rigid schedule that we adhere to, but we are sure of one thing:  learning is occurring almost every waking hour.  For another example, they have learned about alphabetical order from the telephone book and the index from the Sears catalogue. Because they have the time, the kids are developing interests and can pursue them.  John and Glenn have a couple of old electric motors - John, being older, really “gets into” them. John is also interested in making things with wood.  At present he is making a cross from a small walnut log.  He expects to finish it with varnish.  When not tinkering with wood or motors, John is likely to be found drawing intricate pictures of machinery with hydraulics moving various parts. Both boys have collected hundreds of pine cones and removed seeds from them.  We have to do some research to discover the ideal conditions for germinating these and thereby raising some trees. What is Kirstin doing while all this is going on?  A great deal of time is spent playing things like house, but she too is very curious about the written word.  She likes to write - her ability at it amazes me.  I suspect it won’t be long before she figures out reading for herself and begins teaching Kathryn.  As for Kathryn, at just 13 months old, she picked up a pencil and scrap of paper and, holding the pencil properly, began to scribble.  She’s trying hard in all areas to catch up with the big ones! And so it goes.  As time goes by and they can read more independently and pursue other interests, we expect to see children with a broad background of knowledge and confidence in themselves to tackle anything they might want to learn or do. . .

WANDERING THROUGH TOWN

From STREETS FOR PEOPLE by Bernard Rudofsky:

. . .In a magazine article, “The Child in the City: Urbanity and the Urban Scene,” an American scientist, Albert E. Parr, reminisces about his childhood and fondly recalls his home town at the turn of the century . . .He was brought up in a comfortable Norwegian town of seventy-five thousand, a seaport of about the same latitude as Alaska’s Anchorage.  It was the perfect place for a little boy to roam around, indulge his passion for fishing a mere hundred yards from his home, and make himself useful around the house.  One of his typical assignments was to be sent shopping.  “Not as a chore,” he writes, “but as an eagerly desired pleasure, I was fairly regularly entrusted with the task of buying fish and bring it home alone.  This involved the following:  walking to the station in five to ten minutes; buying ticket; watching train with coal-burning steam locomotive pull in; boarding train; riding across long bridge over shallows separating small boat harbor (on right) from ship’s harbor (on the left), including small naval base with torpedo boats; continuing through a tunnel; leaving train at terminal, sometimes dawdling to look at railroad equipment; walking by and sometimes entering fisheries museum; passing central town part where military band played during mid-day break; strolling by central shopping and business district, or, alternatively, passing fire station with horses at ease under suspended harnesses, ready to go, and continuing past centuries-old town hall and other ancient buildings; exploration of fish market and fishing fleet; selection of fish; haggling about price; purchase and return home.” . . .The point of the narrativwe is that this experienced member of the household was all of four years old.  The feat - if one wants to call it that - of the Norwegian child was possible for two reasons.  For one thing, a European town was, and often still is, safe to walk about in even for a small child. Kindergarten tots make their way through streets unaccompanied; the door-to-door delivery of schoolchildren is unknown. . . . . .The other factor that accounts for the self-reliance of the four-year-old on the train and in the market place was his ability to read and to do sums.  Such knowledge is often acquired by a child long before he reaches shcool age.  In fact, he connects reading with school work no more than learning the names of flowers or the words of a song.  Spontaneous interst in reading is aroused on the optical reather than the verbal level by shop signs, streets signs, and the whole flora of broadly hinting advertising symbols.  They provide the link to book reading . . .The city stimulatles the brain.  No other environment - least of all the classroom - tickles the senses as much as the street. Unaware of the importance that adults attach to school learning, and not suspecting their doltish ways of teaching, the bright child attains proficiency in reading without prodding.  “I would have died of shame,” a European mother told me, “if my children had entered school without being able to read.”  Not that it ever occurred to her to instruct them or to hire a tutor; she expected them to learn to read just as naturally as they learned to speak .
WATCHING BIRTHS

Dave V.(CO) wrote:

. . .Helene and I have helped out at some home-births and Sierra (2 1/2) has been at some of these . . .At one year, four months, Sierra was in a small room with the birthing parents and four other busy adults.  She was not in the least bit in the way. She stood at the foot of the bed with eyes as big as half-dollars.  She never asked to be held or to nurse (which was a surprise - she was still nursing often), and wasn’t at all afraid of what was happening (if she was, she didn’t show it). A couple of months ago, Sierra attended another birth and responded equally as well.  The attending midwife had her doubts about Sierra staying in the same room as the birth, but, sensing Helene’s trust in her ability to “behave,” instructed Sierra to stay in a corner and not move.  Well, that is just what she did (I missed the birth, but Sierra told me all about it).  If someone obstructed her view, she would simply shift her position and continue observing the birth.  Just before the baby’s head was born, she left the room for a minute, but returned in time to witness the birth of the body. . . .At these births, Sierra was expected to act responsibly, and so she did . . .

BABY ON THE JOB

The San Gabriel Valley (Calif.) Tribune, 1/8/82:

Soon after she was born last August, Erin Bell started coming to work with her mother, Diana, a 34-year-old filing deputy who reviews police reports and decides if there is sufficient evidence to file charges. Mrs. Bell set up a crib in the office’s lunch room near her office, and plans to keep the baby there until late January or early February, when she will turn daytime care of the child over to a baby sitter. The unique arrangement came after Mrs. Bell applied for a leave of absence to care for her baby.  Her boss, Deputy District Attorney Tom Higgins, felt he couldn’t afford to lose her for a year because of budget cutbacks and a hiring freeze.  “So I suggested that she bring the baby in to work with her if it would not be disruptive or keep Diana from her work,”  he said. Mrs. Bell agreed because she wanted to be with her baby during its early development and because the department provides no salary for a woman taking a leave of absence and her only pay would have been sick leave. Higgins said the baby has caused no problems.  There has been mixed reation to the baby from others at the courthouse. Anita Herman, an office secretary, said the baby is an especailly quiet one.  “She doesn’t bother us at all.” However, Judge Eugene Osko views the situation as a serious abuse of the taxpayers’ money.  “Logic tells you that a baby this age needs a certain amount of care, and her mother has to take time out to do all this when she could be helpig other clerks investigate cases and look at arguments,” he said. . . .One employee, who asked that neither her name or her job title be used, had mixed feelings.  “I’m of the personal opinion that bringing a baby to the office would be disruptive, Šbut I’ve never heard of any complaints about the baby’s presence,” she said. Presiding Judge John Nichols said the baby had not disrupted him, but “I don’t have an opinion as to whether a baby should be in a district attorney’s office or in any law office in the state.” . . .

Page Five

Saturday, July 1st, 2006

     LEARNING AT HOME

From Suzanne A. (Ger.):

Jan 5:  Rick, Niko, Lee and I had a great time making potato pancakes for dinner.  Lee (3) came in the kitchen first and he started helping me grate the potatoes as Rick washed them.  Niko (5) came in on the tail end of the grating so I put him in charge of crushing cracker crumbs in a bag with a rolling pin . . . Rick cut the onions and Lee put the grated potatoes in a strainer. . . Once everything was strained Lee became the stirrer (onion, cracker, potato) and Niko became the “egg man.”  I don’t know why we had never asked him before!  I said, “Here, Niko, you want to crack the eggs?”  He jumped at the chance.  Rick and I kept our mouths shut and I didn’t give any instructions.  Niko had watched us so many times he knew exactly what to do. The first two eggs he tapped on the bowl but when he went to open them, the egg went all over his hands.  Because we had no reaction he didn’t seem to mind and just asked for a cloth to wipe with. The third egg opening was perfect by accident. There’s quite an incentive to opening an egg without having it squish everywhere!  An instant learning experience. Rick decided more eggs and crackers were required.  We offered Lee the choice of “egg cracker” or “cracker crusher” and he chose the latter.  So, Niko was excited to try more egg cracking - two more well done! Then the boys each put salt in the bowl and ground the pepper (always fun!) and Rick cooked the pancakes.  We sat down to a tasty and very satisfying dinner! Another experience the other day game me time during it to reflect upon it.  I have waist-length hair and Niko has asked before if he could comb it or help me wash it . . .So, the other day we had finished breakfast and I had given the boys a hair trim.  The kitchen was flooded with sun (on a COLD winter day). I sat down on the floor and asked Niko if he wanted to comb my hair.  He did.  When Lee came back into the kitchen he took a turn too.  They were both very gentle, knowing how it feels when I comb their hair.   With the sun streaming in, it was a nice setting and it became a close experience for all of us.  Sitting there I thought how easy it is to lose close physical contact with your children.  I breast-fed both Niko and Lee and once they each reached their independent (weaning) age, they often didn’t want to snuggle or be held.  They still need close contact, though - I think all humans do.  I’ve read many times in GWS about a mother or father reading with a child while snuggling.  I realized while getting my hair combed that there are more ways to achieve closeness also . . . Feb 4:  My boys have thought up an elaborate game of “train” Šlately.  They ride on the train with us so often that they know all the action that goes on.  They put on their coveralls which have lots of pockets and they fill them with whistles, paper pad, pen, watch, etc.  Niko had me make him a sign (giving me exact specifications) which trainmen use to signal the driver to go. Also I made a ticket book for each and lent them my paper punch. They play their game for hours - giving us tickets, punching them, starting the train (a group of chairs), etc.  They thought it up all by themselves . . . Feb 14:  A few months before we moved to Germany I decided that I wanted to teach myself to knit.  I had crocheted many things and done many other handcrafts but, for some reason, I had (unfortunately) always steered clear of knitting.  I  did, however, proceed to make Niko a sweater using a knitting magazine with beginner’s instruction as a guide.  It came out all right and I am now an avid knitter.  There is a grand and reasonably priced) supply of yarn here and I have usually three projects going on at one time. As all this has taken place, Niko has taken an interst in my teaching myself how to knit.  I showed him how I read the book and looked at the illustrations.  Sometimes when I would become frustrated (having dropped a stitch or something) I remember telling Niko and Lee that they’d have to wait for what they wanted because I was having trouble.  As I think back on the process, I see how much Niko was watching me as someone who he thought could do anything, yet who was learning something new. He probably felt more of a connection to me seeing the “learning child” in me.  We’ve had similar experiences as the boys accompanied Rick to his voice lessons (when we were in California) and when I taught myself how to play piano . . . Anyway, about a month ago, Niko wanted to try knitting.  So, I got out some yarn and needles.  I showed him how to start, then I left him with it.   He sat in a chair for about half an hour trying to knit, then came to me and said he needed help.  So, as he sat on my lap, I worked the needles as he worked the thread. We got about five rows completed (I had only cast on 10 stiches) when he said he’d had enough.  We put it on the table and I left it there a few days.  Niko didn’t ask to knit again so I put it in the cupboard. About two weeks later he wanted to know where his knitting was.  I told him, he got it out, and as we knitted he talked and talked about all the things he wanted to make.  It’s funny because his talking reminded me of myself and the thoughts I have while making something - I’m always thinking of all my future projects, all kinds of grandiose plans.  I used to get mad at myself for taking on too many projects but I look at it differently now.  Because I have so many projects going on at once (and I do always finish each eventually), I always have something I feel like doing. . . .Niko only has 3″ of his “purse” knitted but maybe someday he will have the urge to finish it . . . Mar 2:  Incredible things have been happening with Niko and writing!  Out of the blue the other day he said he wanted to write a letter (as I was writing, of course).  I happened to be writing to a family in California who are friends of all of us, Šso I turned the paper over and asked Niko what he wanted to write.  He said each person’s name.  So, I printed each name on another piece of paper.  Niko copied each one.  The only things he had written before were Lee’s name and the “O” in his own name (he’d make the “O” and always ask us to write the rest). The next morning Niko said he wanted to write his Uncle Andrew a leltter.  I gave him some stationery and again I asked him what he wanted to write.  He told me two sentences.  I printed it on scratch paper and he proceeded to copy it letter by letter.  It came out great:

Andrew, When are you going to visit me, in winter or summer? Is your school over now? Love, Niko

Since then he has written two other letters.  Each time he starts he intends to write a letter to everyone but he has only the patience for one, again reminding me of myself - I always sit down with a box of stationery but end up having written only one letter - still an accomplishment! Last night, Niko sat down with a pad of paper and some books.  He started copying words from the books and then giving his paper to Rick and asking him to read it.  He did this for over an hour! . . .

AFTER THREE YEARS

Anne Karcher (PA), the mother who wrote about her family’s home-schooling in GWS #17, including her sons’ visiting their grandfather in a nursing home, writes:

. . .Our past three years of home-schooling have been terrific.  And I don’t say this as some kind of optimist who may be secretly covering up discomforts or such. My dad is still seriously ill, so the past three years have been spent taking care of him and home-schooling.  It has been quite a learning experience for each of us . . .Because my husband wanted to spend his days and years with us, we worked out a way he could quit his job, be with us all of the time, and still have enough income to get us by.  It is great!  The boys enjoy having their dad around, and it is wonderful to be able to share with each other without the pressures of the day coming at us from different levels . . . . . .John is now 13 years old and is working diligently at starting his own computer company.  In December 1981 he took money he had saved and searched the market and finally bought himself a Commodore Vic-20 home computer.  It comes with its own how-to instruction book, which John devoured in two days.  The Vic-20, and the Data Sette Recorder (which he needed if he wanted to save any of his programs), cost $329.  He bought an Atari Joystick, which works on a Vic-20 machine, for $9, so he could program his own video games.  He has made a few and is learning Šmore all the time on how to improve them. If anyone is interested in home computing and has the money, the Vic-20 is a great buy.  It is easy to handle and John feels it was the one with the most advantages for the least amount of money.  He had worked up a study on each of the home computers on the market. Jim is 12 years old now and has taken an interest in the piano.  I started taking lessons this winter, and Jim who wants no part of lessons, takes what I’ve learned and masters it by himself.  If he doesn’t understand something, he asks, but we dare only tell him what he wants to know, nothing more.  To some people that sounds snotty or hard-headed, but we love it because we want our boys to be able to work things out, yet know that if they have a question, they can ask.  He has memorized almost all of the songs I’ve learned and practices everyday. We were able to finish our schooling this year by May 3rd. That was the day we had our meeting with the school officials. We had finished the curriculum in April, and then worked on some interesting studies the officials thought might be helpful.  Some were, some weren’t.  Anyway, we got it all done by May, so after our meeting, we let the boys follow their own pleasure.  No one can accuse us of not having school; they are just schooling using their own material. We have had no problems with the school officials these past three years.  In fact, the first year they wanted us to meet with them three times (beginning, middle, and end of the school year), the second year, the same thing; this year, however, they said to only meet twice.  Once in the beginning to see if we needed anything, and once at the end for review.  We were pleased that they trusted us for this.  We have been dilligent with our curriculum each year, and Lord willing, they trust us more each year.  We meet this July to make our plans for the 1982-83 term. The boys’ friends have still wanted to socialize with them even though they are not in school with them these three years. John and Jim have had much social time with children and adults, and I am convinced more each year that children need to be with adults on a level not as parent to child, or teacher to child, but as the book TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS FOR KIDS mentions, adult to adult.  I truly believe that children are just “young” adults. (I hesitated to say “short” adults, for our 13-year-old is 5′10″ tall, taller than me.)  And I have found both with teaching in schools and dealing with children of our families and friends, that if we talk to children on an adult level, (attitude-wise, not necessarily vocabulary-wise), a child will behave accordingly.  And I found this true all the way down to ages 2 and 3. . .

MAKING A DIFFERENCE

From Hostex News, 5/82:

. . .What can a child do to change the world for the better? Here are a few examples of constructive action taken by children: WRITING:  An 8-year-old in Texas has written and illustrated a juvenile book that has become one of the most popular volumes Šin his school library, . . .INFLATION:  A 12-year-old model airplane builder reported a glue manufacturer for illegally raising prices.  he saved consumers over $300,000, which the company had to refund, CARE OF ANIMALS:  A 12-year-old conducted a one-girl campaign against cruelty to Tennessee walking horses.  She ended up testifying before a House subcommittee in Washington to end the practice of “soring” the feet of the animals to force them into their characteristic gait, . . .CLEANER CITIES:  Two hundred school children cleaned a park while a “soul-rock” group donated music to inspire the cleanup. TELEVISION:  Elementary school pupils in Boston produce, write, and act in a closed-circuit TV series, SCIENCE:  An 11-year-old boy conducts regular research projects at the Museum of Natural History in New York.  He is one of the few living “protozoologists” to observe the rare act of a paramecium forming a protective wall around itself as the surrounding water dries up. ADVICE COLUMN:  A 10-year-old girl in Philadelphia writes a regular advice column for young readers of a daily newspaper. . .

WORKING AT ARCOSANTI

Rachael Solem (NV) wrote:

. . .You asked me to write about Arcosanti long ago. . .I was there in 1974 when the work had been going on for four years. I went to a small winter workshop in January, and again in April. Those first workshops were restricted by my need to put them in an academic framework.  I had to write papers on community and cities, so I looked at what was there:  a construction site on a desert mesa and a simple, funky camp near the riverbed below. The rest was in Paola Soleri’s mind, or was then, and in the minds of the very few architects, engineers, and other useful drop-outs who saw his vision. We worked in January in cold gray rain, making a stone path through the camp.  Day by day, foot by foot we lifted ourselves out of the thick mud.  I had never known much about masonry before - except to admire New England stone fences.  We really felt accomplished at the end of a day - college students who had been learning to write ad infinitum in carpeted classrooms - we could see and use our progress. When I returned in April, my work was on the site of Arcosanti itself.  I was hod-girl to the rock-wall crew for many weeks.  After learning some about mortar, I was sent to patch some points in concrete slabs.  Then came my first big job.  I had asked to do masonry since my parents’ house needed all four of its chimneys rebuilt and my mother wanted some wide slate steps to lead graciously to the front door of the house.  So my boss found quite a bit of bricklaying to do.  The first job was taking down a cinderblock wall which had been badly laid.  Under a somewhat brief apprenticeship and some reading (there was a scarcity of masons at the time at Arcosanti), I took apart the wall - noting all the mistakes I could find - cleaned the blocks, Šand relaid them.  I rebuilt another wall, then designed and built two fireplaces and a patio with a fountain. The days were long, beginning at 5:30; breakfast came up to the site on an old truck called the “White Elephant” at 9 AM. Lunch was at one and we quit at 2:30.  Often people stayed at the site beyond that.  When you’re working for free to begin with, dedication seems to take over. As I ran out of money (after the workshop of six weeks, I was invited to stay for the cost of food and insurance - as a novice mason), I worked weekends, too, in that hot Arizona sun -ten hours a day clearing a field of roots.  So doing, I earned the $15 a week I needed to stay for two more months.  Other people were barmaids or odd-jobbers in town, forty miles away, and made more money.  But I had no car and didn’t really want to leave the camp anyway.  For weeks I carried no keys or wallet or general accoutrements of civilized life.  I did my wash by hand, slept out among the low and gnarly mesquite trees.  Cows would wander near my home in the morning.  I shook the crickets from my clothes before I put them on, and avoided the rattlesnake who lived not far away. When I left in late July, I was stronger than I’d ever been, and browner, too.  Some of the friends I made there are still close in many ways.  We subsequently started having babies at the same time.  One friend, in fact, is the person responsible for bringing me to Boston, and so beginning a new phase in my life. She was a re-bar frame builder during the April workshop.  She and another friend, a re-bar shaper, are both GWS readers. Paolo Soleri is building a city of the future there. Helping him is definitely work worth doing.  For information, write to Cosanti, 6433 Doubletree Rd, Scottsdale AZ 85352. . .

DOING IT THEMSELVES

From A Shift in the Wind #12:

. . .One of the most potent organization in this growing network (to end hunger) is the Sarvodaya Shramadana Movement of Sri Lanka. . .A.T. Ariyaratne guides the work of Sarovdaya Shramadana. . . .Here is an account of Ariyaratne at work in a village which needs to repair its water tank in order to irrigate its rice fields.  The people of the village had been corresponding for 15 years with the government in an attempt to have the problem resolved.  All they had to show for it was a thick file of letters.

“He asks them:  What do you need?  Earth.  How much?  200 cubes.  From where could you get it?  From the disused tank-bed. What do you need to dig the tank-bed?  Earth pans, pickaxes. Where do you get the equipment?  Everything except the pans are in the village.  Is there a substitute for pans?  Yes, sheaves of leaves.  How many people to do the job?  Two hundred working four days.  How many volunteers can each bring?  One, two, and so one. Right, who will feed them?  One rich landowner offers to feed them for two days.  Right, who will feed one other by sharing one Šday’s meal?  The hands went up.  The 15-year-old file went up in flames.  The water tank was rebuilt, not in four days, but in the afternoon of the first day,” . . .

CHOOSING HOUSEWORK

From Linda Mills (TX):

. . .The distinction you made in TEACH YOUR OWN between jobs and work has laid to rest a  16-year guilt.  I’m a housewife.  I LOVE being a housewife.  I’ve done office work but always found myself crocheting on my coffee break!  My husband works for an insurance company five days a week, a job he likes and is good at, and on weekends does work he loves:  mechanical work, carpentry, building fences, hauling cattle, etc.  I’ve always felt he has sacrificed himself for me, for my “career.”  If I’d contribute money, he could do his “work” all the time.  He doesn’t feel this way.  He’s pleased that I enjoy my work, and says if he did the “weekend things” all week, he’d no longer enjoy them.  I’ve never really believed him! I suppose I took from your writing what I needed:  for me, I’m not selfish in choosing work that doesn’t pay; for him, the choice of a job for pay and work for pleasure is HIS CHOICE, not something I’ve done to him. . .

HOME-SCHOOLED CONDUCTOR

Marie Friedel of the NATIONAL ASSOCIATION FOR GIFTED AND CREATIVE CHILDREN sent this clipping form the Providence (RI) Journal-Bulletin:

. . .Lance Friedel, probably this state’s most publicized “gifted child,” was reading by age three, but, except for a short stint in kindergarten, he did not “go to school” until he was 16. He studies music at Barrington College and conducting at Boston University.  Now he has established his own musical group and next Saturday will conduct the first concert of the Providence Chamber Orchestra. . . . . .Lance considers himself very fortunate to have missed the school experience. . . Invariably, the first thing people ask him now is how he spent all that time when other children were in school. “I was never bored,” he said.  “Contrary to what many seem to expect, I did not sit around watching television.” He pursued his own interests and his parents encouraged him to try things, even if they seemed very difficult, he said.  He’s still doing that.  His recent project may be the most risky he’s tackled.  He’s taking money he might have used for graduate school to start the chamber orchestra.  He has contracted 30 professional musicians to play. Young Friedel has been preparing himself for a career in conducting since he was about 13. . . . . .From the beginning of his interest in music, his goal was to conduct and he undertook his studies with the intensity that another might give to becoming an instrumental virtuoso.    . . .More important to conducting than virtuosity in one instrument is to understand the techniques and problems of playing all the instruemnts, he said . . .

GUITAR MAKER

From the Louisville, KY Courier-Journal, 12/13/81:

. . .Hascal Haile’s status as one of the world’s pre-eminent luthiers, or guitar makers, has received several recent confirmations.  Late last year the Smithsonian Institution accepted one of Haile’s guitars into its collections. . . Last summer Haile was selected to be the featured craftsman at the National Folk Fstival at the National Park Service’s Wolf Trap Farm, near Washington, D.C.  Perhaps the clearest evidence of the distinction of Haile’s instruments can be found by scanning his client list and finding names like Chet Atkins and Roy Clark, along with a number of symphony musicians. . . .Haile didn’t exactly stumble into guitar making, yet neither did his recognition come after a liftime of apprenticeship as a luthier.  In fact, the notion of making guitars did not occur to Haile until he was in his mid-60’s. . . After a successful career as a maker of custom furniture, Haile began a 10-year period of study and experimentation that led to his guitars being sought by recognized artists.  His skills as a luthier were all self-developed.  He still, on the recent passage of his 75th birthday, had never watched or studied with any other craftsman. . .

HANGING OUT A SHINGLE

Donna found this sign at a streetcar stop near her home.  It was printed on yellow paper, with a large picture of a flute and saxophone, with bold rub-on headlines and typed text:

Flute, Sax, Clarinet lessons with John Payne Patient, experienced teacher Lessons tailored to your goals in music - Seven years of teaching experience have shown me: (1) ANYONE can learn to play an instrument when taught properly, despite any previous failues or “lack of talent.” (2) I can teach ANYONE to improvise, even complete beginners.  You don’t have to be born with it.  Over the years I have developed my own original approach to learning to improvise and IT WORKS.  UNAVAILABLE ELSEWHERE. (3) Practicing is fun when you are doing it right.  Long hours of painful, boring practicing are not necessary.

Unique opportunity to study with a nationally known musician I have three albums out nationally under my own name on Arista and Mercury Records.  I have toured, recorded and/or done TV with Van Morrison, Bonnie Raitt, Phoebe Snow, David Bromberg, and Michael Franks.

Beginners Welcome

If you don’t know how to even put the instrument together or make a sound out of it, that’s fine with me.  Reasonable rates. If interested call John Payne at 277-3438 in Brookline . . .

(DR:)  We called John Payne and found him to be as cheerful and straightforward in person as his sign suggests.  He says he started teaching music three years ago in his home, and got so many students he had to rent a studio and hire teachers.  He never went to music school.  He and his staff (one administrator, one full-time teacher, one three-quarter time teacher, and 10-12 part-time teachers) now give 130 lessons a week; their students also are in 12 ensembles and two saxophone quartets. John sent us a copy of his Music Center newsletter (address: 318 Harvard St., Brookline MA  02146), in which he is quoted as saying, “I have the utmost respect and admiration for all adult beginners even before I’ve met them.  The adult beginner is someone who is willing to spend time, money and effort to defy modern socioety’s opinion that s/he should conform and just be a spectator, that s/he can’t create anything beautiful.  By simply showing up for the first lesson, the adult beginner is saying, ‘I can learn to create artistically!’ Fortunately, that’s absolutely right!”. . .

SEARCHING TEENAGER

From Christine C. West Fork, AR  :

. . .As I am 15 and have been unschooled within the last year and a half, I am curious to know other kids my age and older, and what they are doing and how they are coping. . .It has been a hard struggle for me but after nearly a year of depression, trauma, withdrawal, and so forth, I have won my battle and have become a college correspondence student through the University of Arkansas. . . .I feel certain that more contact between depressed teenagers would answer some of the questions like, “What do I do now?” or “What am I going to do today?”  These questions plagued me after nine years of math, science, history, etc. My biggest question is what rural kids do for fun, enjoyment, social outlets, etc. . .Is there someplace to meet the more intelligent, open-minded and interesting people I’m looking for?. . .

PIANO AND PIZZA

From the Ithaca Times:

Vinnie Hawes is sitting in a corner by the brick wall looking over at the piano.  Marcus, Kevin, Nichole, and Melanie are at another table waiting for their birthday pizza.  Barton, who’s only eleven, expertly rolls out the dough, and begins the process of enlarging it by flipping the disc of dough in the air. Louise sits on a pair of stacked chairs in front of the keyboard Šand sight-reads through two songs by Ralph Vaughan  Williams, while a voice student from Ithaca College gets some vocal exercise. It’s not the pizza place it used to be; perhaps it has become something more. . .Louise Smith is the new owner of Pirro’s, and she’s the one who has brought the piano into the scheme of things.  Smith has been a piano teacher for some twenty years.  She has been teaching part-time at Henry St. John School and is currently on leave from the Community School of Music and Arts.  Louise plays piano every evening at Pirro’s, and has attracted all sorts of people to the place.  On a given evening, you might find some neighborhood kids in for pizza and staying to marvel at Brahm’s or Chopin . . .Louise’s children, Barton and his sister Kara, who is nineteen, work here, as do other neighborhood kids who drive the deliveries all over Ithaca and even to some outlying areas. . . And over all this activity come the strains of music on the old upright piano.  Louise Smith can perform the classics, from a Beethoven sonata (I’ve been working on that one for twenty years”) to Chopin or Bach.  She can also run through rags by Scott Joplin, and is not above trying to satisfy a request for some soul or jazz.  But there are others who come to play as well, students of the piano who can do a jazz turn, or local people who can play and sing the blues . . . . . .People on the sidewalk outside stop and listen through the screen door.  It’s only a pizza place, but it seems warm and friendly as people share the music. “One of the reasons I’m here,” observes Louise Smith, “is that I want to combine my playing and teaching here.  I think kids should have access to an instrument.  I think it’s nice to be able to share music in an informal way.  I still do some concerts.  What I really like about playing here is that people really listen.  People seem to feel really comfortable here -they’ll sometimes stay an hour or so after they eat.” “It’s been a real wonderful playing experience,” she continues.  “Now that I play every night, it’s more of a job, but I feel I’m sharing music like I’ve never shared it before.” . . .

A YOUNG PLAYWRIGHT

From the Ithaca, NY Journal:

. . .While the word “play” means roller skates and jump ropes to the average 10-year-old, it means footlights, curtains and stage sets to the youngest member of Ithaca’s literary elite. Ishmael Wallace is the playwright and composer of the First Street Playhouse musical adventure “Love’s Path is Lumpy, or, Eat Your Spaghetti . . .” . . .The plot reflects his love for swashbucklers.  It follows the exploits of Tom and Mickey, who vow to reform their wicked ways (refusing to eat their spaghetti) and to win the heart of a girl named Lucy.  The two perform all kinds of valorous deeds - sailing the seven seas as pirates, sipping tea in the parlors of the rich and powerful, and fighting valiantly with revolutionaries.    Ishmael has also composed the music for the play and will act as piano accompanist.  He gave each character one or more songs to sing and wrote an overture to entertain the audience while a so-called traveling acting company cavorts across the stage and decides on a good place to put on its play. It was when the Wallaces attended the First Street Playhouses’s Christmas workshops that they children knew they wanted to contribute.  Nancy told her son to expect to start small.  “I had high hopes of being an usher, ” quipped Ishmael. But director Carolyn Fellman learned about his plays, read one, asked him to expand it, and chose it for the third young people’s theater production of the company’s first season. . . .Writing does not come easily for Ishmael, who also writes a daily diary and composes a newspaper which he and his sister circulate among their neighbors.  “I struggle and go through phases of writing a lot and not writing at all.” He also finds “accompanying a lot harder than playing solo. You have to be ready to improvise at all times when a singer forgets his part.” . . .The First Street Playhouse, according to Fellman, is the only theater in the country which specializes in child-written scripts performed by children and adults together. “Ishmael is fortunate,” said his mother, “because he has the writing ability to say anything he wants.  But he’s only 10 years old and still has a child’s fresh imagination.” If Ishmael has his way, that won’t change.  He says, “For my future, I guess I’d just like to keep on writing plays and composing music for them.”. . .

6-YEAR-OLD SCULPTOR

People magazine, 3/8/82:

. . .Heather Soderberg was all of 2 when she astounded her father, sculptor John Soderberg, with her first work, an inch-high group of five women done in wax.  Soderberg cast his daughter’s work in bronze and entered it in a competition against sixth graders.  “Five Women” took first place and earned its precocious creator her first astonished critical praise. Now 6, the young artist, whose oeuvre is displayed at the West Side Gallery in Phoenix, Ariz., has produced 250 sculptures with themes ranging from “The Flying Dragon” to “The French Mountain Man.”  Seventy-six pieces from her collection have been sold at prices from $65 to $150.  Through a twist of fate, the value of Heather’s work was enhanced by a fire last September that destroyed the Soderberg home and studio.  Only one of Heather’s molds was saved, “The French Mountain Man.”  As a result, “The Flying Dragon,” which gallery owner Ruth Magadini bought for $75 only last fall, is now a unique piece worth $800. A first grader, Heather keeps a $1,500 bank account, signs checks and picks up the tab for such luxuries as a new bicycle and a family trip to McDonald’s.  “When I get bigger,” says Heather, “I’m going to still be an artist.  I’m going to stop when I die, and that will be a long time from now,”. . . Š CHILDREN’S ART SHOW

(DR:)  I will be attending the Education Network’s World Conference in San Francisco November 19-21, 1982.  The Network was started by a number of educators who were deeply concerned about the serious and growing problems of schools all over the world, and wanted to find ways to create “schools that work for everyone.”  I see this conference as a chance to make ourselves known to many in the education field, to overcome some of the adversarial within-the-system/outside-the-system rivalry, and to share what we know about what real teaching and real learning are. According to the Education Network News, “A global Children’s Art Gallery is being prepared for the Conference. Direct inquiries or submit artwork, including the child’s name, age, country, medium and view of what she/he is representing, to George Fargo, Ph.D., University of Hawaii, Honolulu HI  96822.” We thought that some GWS families might enjoy contributing artwork for this show.  I’ve asked whether “unschoolers’ art” might be displayed together and have not yet heard an answer. Wouldn’t this be an interesting way to find out just how much school does affect children’s artwork?  So if you do enter anything, please say if you are home-schooling. There was no deadline in the article; my guess is you should submit  your work as soon as possible.  We’ll let you know what comes of this.

FOUND A HOME

From Susan Corcoran (MO):

. . .Back in “People/Places,” GWS #24, was a letter from Gail Kuehnie telling about GREENWOOD FOREST.  Sounded like heaven to us; we wrote, they wrote, back and forth, and now we’ve moved on to our 10 acres of land!  It’s beautiful here, lots of families and more coming soon.  The land is tough but tamable, the spirit of cooperation amongst the “forest people” is tremendous.  The trees are green, the rocks in the garden are big, the river is great for a swim, and we saw a magnificent owl yesterday.  There’s a community school - 8 students last year, but several families (us, too) will be home-schooling.  We’re getting a musical group together to sing in town at the Saturday night sing-along in the park! There are still eight parcels, out of 43, left to sell -there’s 1000+ acres here, all set up nice and legal in a non-profit corporation. . .

THE FIRST “SCHOOLS”

From the book ONCE UPON A WORD:

. . .You may find it difficult to believe, but the word school grew in a fairly direct way from the Greek word scole, and to the ancient Greeks that word meant “leisure.”    . . .For boys in their teens, school meant waking on a warm, sun-washed day. . .and sauntering out to find one’s teacher. Most likely, he’d be strolling through one of the cool green groves of olive and eucalyptus trees that dotted the main areas of the city.  With no roll call, no attendance sheets, a group would gather and go for a walk, frequently through the city and on to the countryside.  There, they would sit and talk, listen, argue, ask questions, search out answers.  That was scole.