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Saturday, November 25th, 2006GROWING WITHOUT SCHOOLING #15
Lots of news this month. First of all, the U.S. Supreme Court upheld the
Kentucky Supreme Court ruling that the state could not impose regulations about
curricula, teacher certification, etc. on private schools. Details this issue.
The July issue of Mother Earth News, which will be in their subscribers’ hands
or on newsstands by the time you read this, has a long interview with me about home
schooling. I saw the copy, and Pat Stone, who interviewed me and prepared and
edited the transcript, has done a great job. This is by far the best and most complete
article that has yet appeared about our work. I hope you will tell as many people as
possible about it — or better yet, show it to them. For those who don’t receive Mother
Earth News or can’t find it, we are selling individual copies of that issue here for $3.00.
Mother (as it’s called) has about a million paid subscribers, as well as large
newsstand sales. Perhaps as many as two million people will read that issue. Since
Mother readers believe in and in many ways practice independence and self-reliance,
we should find many new friends there.
Psychology Today will soon (probably July issue) have an article written by me
about children and work. The article doesn’t say much about home schooling, but the
brief biography of me mentions GWS and gives the address, so perhaps we will find
some new friends there as well.
Donna and I, after a conference in Keene, N.H., dropped in on the annual
meeting of the National Conference of Alternative Community Schools. We saw Ed
Nagel, Peter Van Daam, and many other friends there, and learned some interesting
things. Mr. Gonzalez, executive director of the Pacific Region Assoc. of Alternative
Schools (119 Geary Blvd., San Francisco CA 94109), told us that a recent poll of
Californians showed that 75% favor some kind of voucher plan. He says the only
reason the voucher plan people didn’t get enough signatures to put their proposition
on the ballot was that they simply didn’t have enough people out with petitions. Next
time, which will be soon, they won’t make that mistake again, and he feels confident
the proposal will get on the ballot and will pass.
Dr. Raymond Moore, author of BETTER LATE THAN EARLY and SCHOOL CAN
WAIT, told me on the phone the other day that he has recently asked a number of
organizations that have home study materials — Calvert, Home Study Institute, U. of
Nebraska, U. of Missouri, etc. — how many people are using their materials. On the
basis of their replies, he estimates that the number of families using some kind of
elementary or secondary home study materials is more than a quarter of a million! Of
course, probably not many of these have taken their children out of school altogether.
But it is still an impressive and encouraging figure.
Nancy Plent of NJ will be offering a home-schooling workshop in Addison, NY,
at the Homesteaders’ Festival, July 23-27, organized by Sherrie & Norm Lee, who
publish Homesteaders’ News (see NY Dir.)
Thanks to the more than thirty volunteers who are helping us type names and
addresses from letters we’ve received since the Phil Donahue show. One volunteer,
Dana Purser of Charlotte NC, is 11 years old and taught herself to type only a couple
of months ago. (She says, I have never been to school a day in my life, and don’t
want to, ever.)
We now have over 100 titles on our booklist. Those of you who have seen our
little office may wonder where we put all those books. Well, they are everywhere. The
big question is, where will we put the next 100? A year from now we should have that
many more. You can get our latest list at any time by sending a self-addressed
stamped envelope.
— John Holt
COMING LECTURES
Sept. 16, 1980: Rio Grande College, Rio Grande, OH 45674; 8 pm. Contact
Doris Ross, Student Activities, (614) 245-5353.
On Nov. 21-22, I will be at a conference for educational writers in San
Francisco, CA, sponsored by the Center for Independent Education. It will not be open
to the public, but it could be a good opportunity for others in the area to arrange fee-
paying engagements, before or after the conference.
FROM BARNSTABLE SCHOOLS
From Jane Sheckells, Director of Elementary Curriculum and Instruction,
Barnstable Public Schools, 230 South St., Hyannis MA 02601 (see Good News from
Cape Cod, GWS #13):
. . . We receive approximately one contact a month requesting home-schooling
information. They appear to be equally divided between school departments and
parents. School departments are concerned with how the Barnstable Schools district
is handling requests for such home learning opportunities since they have heard we
are cooperating in such a situation. Parents who are in touch with us are ones
interested in finding out more about home-schooling; we have Elaine Mahoney’s
permission to put them in touch with her.
As a school department, we feel that home-schooling is indeed a two-way
street; we are gaining information and insights as are the parents and children
involved. We respect the honesty and integrity of Mrs. Mahoney as she is searching
for what she feels is the best learning opportunities for her two girls. In turn she is most
cooperative and willing to discuss with us concerns which we raise. Certainly better
attitudes and relationships evolve as parents and schools work in cooperation, with
our children being the beneficiaries of such endeavors. The Barnstable Schools
district attempts to cooperate with parents in many, many ways; home-schooling is just
one specific way . . .
YOUNG WRITERS WANTED
Pat Stone, who did the Plowboy interview with me, writes from MOTHER
EARTH NEWS (PO Box 70, Hendersonville NC 28739):
. . . Being a kid-interested person, I’ve been wanting to make sure MOTHER
EARTH NEWS continues to run articles aimed towards children (or parents).
Generally, we’ve been doing things you can make for your youngster to play with, and
those pieces do seem to go over well. What I’d like to do now is see if we can build up
some pieces written by children for children. They’d have to be of a practical how-to
nature (like the rest of the mag) but could cover things you can make to play with . . .
nature or outdoor projects a youngster could do and might be interested in doing . . .
perhaps a story of a youth’s livestock raising experiences (and profits) . . . ?
I figure that you probably have access to a select group of youngsters who
would be most likely to be interested in and capable of this. So if you’re interested in
promoting this effort, how about giving it a good plug in GWS as an idea we want to try
and telling any kids who think they may have a good idea for such a piece to write me
a letter telling me exactly what they’d want to write about (giving me enough details or
illustrations so I can make a guess at whether or not to encourage them). I’ll give them
feedback, writing guidelines, and we’ll see what happens . . .
LEARNING ON TOUR
From a reader:
. . . As a certified primary teacher (currently on leave from my job) I hold a job
teaching an eight-year-old who spends most of her time traveling with her parents.
She attended school only three days in October, but according to current reports from
her teachers, is doing a fine job of keeping up with the rest of her third grade class.
Her father is a recording star who takes his family with him from city to city on tour,
coming home approximately once a week, during which time I work with his daughter…
AN UNSCHOOLING FAMILY
From Rosalie Megli (IL):
. . . I find GWS extremely helpful in living and growing with my children, ages 10,
12, 14, out of school for over a year now. Because unschoolers are choosing so many
modes of living, I am made aware of many avenues of living/growing that I might
otherwise fail to consider.
We expected to carry out a program of academics and presented a
comprehensive educational plan to our Regional Superintendent, which gained
approval. Though in the plan we stated that we would follow a loosely structured
schedule and study largely areas of interest to the children, we did list many textbooks
we have and gave the impression we would cover basics as defined by public
schools, which we in fact planned to do. I was unprepared for my children’s lack of
cooperation in my plans for them. They resist being taught and do not like to have
activities turned into learning experiences. My 12 year old is teaching herself to play
the piano and I have hindered her by offering help when it wasn’t asked for. Now that I
have learned to leave her alone, she occasionally asks for help figuring out a rough
spot. I am slowly developing trust in the children’s ability to choose for themselves
how to conduct their lives. After all, one cannot separate living and being from
learning, so education takes place every day of our lives.
It came to me recently that we are no longer home-schoolers, but unschoolers.
Not only are we not trying to duplicate a school education, we are not interested in
education per se, at all. We are interested in finding significance in our lives each day,
in setting goals and working toward them, in developing ways to live responsibly in our
world.
Our ten year old said, No one can say I haven’t learned lots this year; my
head’s always getting full of stuff! He then enumerated some of his recent
involvement: helping a friend in his produce store; traveling south for the first time with
that same friend; doing farm chores; gardening; helping build our own solar house;
accompanying his father on trips to haul food, a family business; going on weekly trips
to the library; reading many books. I am confident that all my children are preparing
themselves adequately to live meaningful lives in the future, and more importantly,
they are living meaningfully now.
I appreciate the low cost of books offered by Holt Associates. They are to find
their way into homes of many of our friends and relatives this year as gifts. . .
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We hope many other readers will follow this good example. Buying our books
to give to friends gives pleasure to the friends, helps us, and helps keep good books
alive. Many of the books that are now on our list, or that I plan to add, are not even in
any of the biggest bookstores here. Good books are only going to be kept alive by the
people who know and love them, which is one reason I like being, even in a very small
way, in the book business.
LIVE-IN TEENAGERS
From Sandy Sapello (NJ):
. . . Several people have written you with the problem of what to do with their
young child at home — especially single parents. I found a solution to this problem
which might help some of these people. I advertised in the newspaper for a live-in
babysitter and I now have two teenage (19) girls living with me. I have been very lucky
that they get along very well with the children and with me and they are both
trustworthy (although I find most people can be when treated with respect). One girl is
working and pays for her room and board; the other just had a baby boy and she
babysits for me for her room and board. It solved my problem also of how to keep a
house that was much too large and expensive just for my two boys (who did not want
to move) and me. It has had many side benefits and few real problems . . .
UNDERGROUND
A reader writes:
. . . How about an underground of interested families who may take a child to
live with them while the heat’s on? The family could say to trouble-making
authorities, Our child doesn’t live with us. If pressed, then say, He/she lives with
his/her aunt. I actually lived with my grandparents for ten years and my parents were
never even asked where I was, even at the time my parents were enrolling my brother
and sister in the local school.
To make this arrangement easy for the child, unschooling families should know
each other (by meetings, visits, phone calls) and become friends. In our case, we
have become friends with a nearby unschooling family whom we met through the
GWS Directory.
HELPFUL PROF IN ACTION
From the bulletin of the University of Pittsburgh School of Education, Pittsburgh
PA 15260:
. . . Dr. David Campbell, associate professor in Foundations of Education, has
been acting as consultant in the Pittsburgh area to the alternative program started
approximately two years ago by the noted educator and author, John Holt . . .
In spite of compulsory school attendance laws, parents in many areas
throughout the country are fighting in courts and winning the right to teach their
children at home. . . I get two to three inquiries a week from Ohio, Pennsylvania, and
West Virginia, said Campbell. He has already advised some 20 sets of parents
regarding the alternative home study program. Most programs range from
kindergarten through sixth grade.
At the parents’ request, Campbell sets up a curriculum that will meet state
requirements, or evaluates a home study plan. The curricula are prepared, according
to Campbell, in line with Pennsylvania guidelines for teaching in private elementary
schools. Many school districts have accepted Campbell’s suggestion that home study
students keep a portfolio of all their work to be used for evaluation rather than be given
standardized tests.
Dr. Campbell has given court testimony as to the validity of curricula and at
times has acted as evaluator. He testified in the precedent-setting Amherst, Mass.
case which allowed home study with the school’s right to examine the program. . .
AT HOME IN ILLINOIS
Valerie Hilligan (IL) writes:
. . . I want to tell you a little about our motivation for teaching three of our four
children at home.
We came to the decision painfully after much soul-searching and research (your
books were one source) and viewing of the classrooms our children attended last
year. We had discussions with administrators in which we candidly expressed our
views as to the unreasonable and destructive pressures the teachers were laying on
the students. Finally we saw that, although sympathetic, the superintendent either
could not or would not control the actions of his teachers regarding excessive work
loads put upon first and second graders, humiliation and punishment for busywork
incompleted and of course the general atmosphere of impatience and intolerance in
the classroom.
My husband then wrote the superintendent a rather official but brief letter stating
that the children were hereby withdrawn and would be taught at home by us according
to our views. Simultaneously, I called the children’s principal and said the same thing.
The superintendent then wrote us back assigning a teacher/liaison between us and
promising us any assistance he could offer. I should say that my husband’s letter had
prudently asked for their assistance in materials, though we rarely use them up to this
point. The liaison person has only been out to the house two or three times in a year
and is very non-pressuring. At her request, we submitted a two-page report on our
goals for the children and current evaluation of their progress, which she keeps on file
should legal problems arise. When the children had been out of school only three
months I refused to have them take standardized tests in spite of the liaison’s strong
suggestion. She did not force the issue. In all, our relationship with the
superintendent’s office is cordial though a bit uneasy on both sides. I believe we are
the only ones doing this in the district and I suspect he is cooperating quietly to avoid
publicity. I doubt he would like to be known for this.
. . . An influence and inspiration to me was and is the work of Roy Masters of
The Foundation of Human Understanding. I know very well that if I hadn’t begun his
twice daily meditation technique five years ago, I would not today have the inner
strength to deal with my own and others’ conditioning which screams so insistently that
the status quo must be right because everybody does it. His meditation and teaching
also was the prime thrust in helping me realize the great harm my own well motivated
(I thought) impatient ambitions were doing to my children’s characters, not to mention
their happiness. . .
The children (13, 9, and 7) are literally becoming smarter, funnier, happier and
healthier before our eyes since they left school. They are showing interests and
initiatives we never knew they had. When at school they came home so tired, drained
and upset, all they could do was fight together or conk out in front of the TV. The first
year hasn’t been easy, however. And I would counsel any parent taking this on to
seriously consider the state of his/her own equilibrium and the depth of his patience.
Non-pressuring but attentive, loving patience is the number one prerequisite for
educating one’s own or anybody’s children. I feel this is the essential quality most
lacking in the teachers and parents I meet. Of course, this is a quality we all need to
improve upon. I don’t know of any way to do that except to learn to be still and calmly
look inside oneself regularly, i.e. Masters’ meditation.
My oldest daughter still goes to school, 8th grade. . . She is handling the
pressures from both teachers and peers nicely and so is gaining from the varied
experience this school offers. I don’t hesitate to step in when she seems to be
overwhelmed. She knows that and understands that she cannot blindly conform to
teacher or friend just because others do it. She reads your books on her own initiative,
with great interest and indignation at recognizing her own and other children’s
outrageous predicaments under the guise of institutionalized learning. . . .
LEFT OUT
A parent wrote that her unschooled child who loves home study feels somewhat
left out in spite of going to Sunday school, choir, piano lessons, soccer, swimming,
theatre group, etc. I wrote in reply:
. . . Home schooled children are certainly, by definition, out of the mainstream of
their culture, no two ways about it. This will still be true a generation from now, even if
my prediction that 10% of children will be home schooled comes true.
I can see how your child would feel left out, but I do want to say that from the
age of 11 I felt left out, and never more so than when I was in school. I think that for
most children in our society the experience of growing up is an experience of being left
out, partly because of our worship of beauty, wealth, power, athletic skill, etc.
Being an outsider was somewhat tough on me during my growing up, and I
think I would have been better off if I had felt, and been, somewhat less left out than I
was. But it gave me the independence and moral courage I needed to do things in my
adult life that most people weren’t doing, to follow work that seemed important.
My point, then, is not only that children would not escape the feeling of being left
out even if they went to school, but that if children operate, as yours seem to, from a
base of love and support, it doesn’t do them any harm to feel a little unusual and may
indeed prove to be an asset.
I think that many of the children at the Ny Lille Skole (see INSTEAD OF
EDUCATION) feel left out some or much of the time. That school, or club, also had its
leaders and its followers, its stars and its minor part players, its extroverts and
introverts. The school did not cure the ordinary and difficult problems of growing up
and getting a sense of one’s own identity and worth. All we could say is that it didn’t
make this difficult problem any worse. I would say the same of unschooling. It isn’t
and can’t be a solution for many of the problems of being young, or growing up in an
anxious and confused world, or in a society that generally has no use for young
people. But at least home schooling doesn’t make those problems worse. . .
SCHOOL LIFE
A mother recently called me from Bloomington, Indiana (seat of the main
campus of the Indiana University) to say that she had just found out that the school her
children attend, and several others, have for some years now had a policy of no
recess. Her child leaves home at 7 AM and does not get back until after 4 PM, totally
exhausted. She tells me that she knows of other schools in the state, and other states,
that have also cut out recess. It is apparently a growing trend in schools. So where
and when in such schools does all that great social life take place?
If any GWS readers know of other schools that have cut out recess, please let
us know.
The Boston Globe, 5/20/80:
. . . Despite stereotypes depicting the homes of delinquent children as broken,
uncaring places dominated by marital stress, child psychologists and police say there
is another profile of the parents of delinquents. These are people who try to do
everything right in raising their children, who care and get involved with schools and
sports and still lose control. Bewildered, they too wind up in a court, asking that their
child be barred from their home.
While there is no single cause or easy solution, parents and counselors
interviewed by The Globe say the general pattern shows problems evolve slowly and
explode all at once, generally triggered by drug abuse and peer pressure. . .
In Massachusetts courts during 1979, 1664 children were taken out of their
homes and placed in foster care, drug rehabilitation programs or, in some cases, a
series of temporary housing arrangements. The number of youths in the program now
exceeds 2000.
. . . A common thread among several parents who have gone through the
wrenching process of legally removing their child from the family is the suddenness
with which bad things happen.
One day it’s a child who can be comforted and then, seemingly overnight, it’s an
adolescent who won’t listen. The drift apart, parents say, is nearly imperceptible and
clearly evident only when it may be too late.
Counselors say the children usually share certain similarities:
– Their behavior gradually becomes dominated by alcohol or drug use.
– They drift into anti-authority peer groups at school who become a self-
proclaimed band of outlaws abusing drugs and alcohol. . .
Newsweek, 5/26/80:
. . . The growing problem of cheating exists on almost every campus — cheating
on tests and papers appears to involve a substantial minority of undergraduates,
observed a recent Carnegie Council report on higher education. In anonymous
campus surveys, one-third of the students at Princeton, Dartmouth, Amherst and Johns
Hopkins admitted to cheating at least once. Two-thirds of the undergraduates at
Stanford confessed to plagiarizing papers or padding bibliographies.
Not content with old-fashioned methods, like peeking at a neighbor’s paper,
modern cheaters have adopted sophisticated techniques. One Maryland student
jiggered the university’s computer cards and changed the grades of 40 fraternity
brothers from B to A. His brothers gave him a set of ski equipment as a thank-you gift
– just before he was expelled. Companies selling pre-written term papers operate
openly around many campuses and even advertise in student newspapers. Many
professors here have stopped assigning term papers because they can’t tell who
writes them, says University of Missouri sociologist John Galliher.
. . . Colleges are beginning to take serious steps to curb cheating. Johns
Hopkins, Notre Dame and the University of Illinois have reluctantly abandoned their
honor codes and monitor exams with proctors. . .
BRITISH UNSCHOOLERS
From Resurgence, the magazine of the E. F. Schumacher Society in England
(Address: Ford House, Hartland, Bideford, Devon):
. . . Geoffrey and Iris Harrison, who quit the business world to live on a small-
holding, were taken to court by Hereford and Worcester County Council for allegedly
refusing to send their three children to school.
They have defied attendance orders served by the county council and on Jan.
14 pleaded not guilty at Great Witley magistrates’ court to three charges of refusing to
ensure the attendance at school of their daughter Andrea, 15, and their sons Grant, 14,
and Newall, 10.
. . . Magistrates were told by Mr. Roland Meighan (lecturer in education at
Birmingham University and editor of two national educational magazines) in his
evidence for Harrison that he had spent two days assessing the children at the family
smallholding and found they were being taught under a system where the priorities
were instilling confidence, the ability to solve problems, arousing intellectual curiosity,
imparting self reliance and the use of first-hand learning experiences.
Earlier, Andrea Harrison told the court she had taught herself to read music and
to play the violin to orchestral standard and hopes to become professional. She had
also taught herself shorthand and touch typing.
However, the Harrisons were convicted by magistrates at Great Witley for failing
to comply with school attendance orders in respect of three of their children. They
were granted an absolute discharge.
Mrs. Harrison, who has been leading a campaign for the right to educate
children without interference from the local authority, said she would appeal.
[From an interview with Mrs. Harrison:]
. . . Wanda [the oldest daughter] is planning a trip alone to Denmark to see the
Peoples College. She will take her bicycle and possibly her tent. It is her intention to
become a student at this college.
Andrea has become a member of Ludlow Orchestra. She plans to go on to
Dartington to study music when she is 18. Until recently she has run a small business
from one of the buildings. She obtained organic whole wheat from a neighbor friend,
made bread and sold it from her little shop, but has now found that the demands were
too great on her energy and time for her to do justice to her musical study. Some days
this can be in the region of 8 to 10 hours of intensive study.
Grant — well, he is a tremendous person. He has a small business running 100
head of poultry, selling the eggs to callers who come to his egg-grading room.
Surplus cocks, etc., he will calculate to the last pence for their rearing costs and add
his percentage for his time, and these are sold to the house. He has 10 different pure
breeds. He experiments with cross breeding. He is in need of a metal turning lathe
which we will help him obtain. He wants to make parts for the clocks which he mends,
make a steam engine, parts for spinning wheels, etc. Already he has shown that he
has tremendous aptitude in wood turning.
Newall — the best way I can explain where he is, is from a question made by
him to me last November. He asked me to help him find out who the monarch and
Prime Minister were at the time of Guy Fawkes as he wanted to try and destroy the
Houses of Parliament. He felt that he could understand it more if he knew what kind of
people were governing at that time.
. . . I had been teaching a gypsy girl to read by tape recorder and she phoned to
say Me Dad has got some second-hand wood block flooring. The children and Geoff
went to see this. It consisted of two floors, both used as car show rooms. They brought
some of the wood blocks back with them but previously had measured the area of
flooring to be lifted. They weighed a wood block and set about working out the total
number that would be lifted, then found the total weight. We then owned an old lorry
with a certain capacity both for weight and height. The children worked out how many
blocks per load could be carried, the number of trips, etc., and also the area of storage
space needed in the barn. They then calculated how many we would need for our
own use and then the price that they would have to sell the remainder in order to cover
the total cost and give themselves something for their work. I would like to stress that
although I did maths at grammar school I was totally out of my depth to do these
calculations. The whole project worked out to their calculations.
. . . They have not been withdrawn from the world. They are very aware of the
problems of our world today and realise that it is the responsibility of each one of us to
create meaningful lives not dependent upon old ideals.
. . . On one occasion Grant was assessed by the educational psychiatrist. He
was then 10. Although he has had a great desire to learn to read and write, because
of inherited tendencies this has been a very slow, but on the other hand sure,
procedure. Because of this he was allocated to an Educational Sub-normal School.
We did not take up this offer. At the time of this assessment Grant showed his ability to
be far from sub-normal. He had taken clocks apart when a very small boy and these
had been put into a box. At 10 years old he went off to a room alone and reassembled
three clocks, two chiming, which all worked by the end of that day. . .